When reading How to Become an Alpha Male by John Alexander, I was continually impressed with the strength of the ideas set forth within its pages. This product helps you achieve the mind frame of an alpha male. This is really the greatest contribution of this book, and John Alexander does a great job communicating its importance and application.

How to Become an Alpha Male teaches you simple, effective ways to control the frame of almost any interaction. This book really goes into the psychology of human social interactions, who is in control and who isn’t and why. The great thing about this technique is that it is almost entirely internal. You won’t have to rely on cheesy lines or cliché dating tactics, just natural human psychology. By changing your perspective of yourself, Alexander helps you change other people’s perspective of you. It always comes from the inside out, so you don’t have to be somebody you’re not.

The exercise on page 50 titled “fixing your mindset about yourself with women” (the book is filled with Easy Alpha Male Exercises), although only five short questions was extremely helpful to me in restructuring my thoughts about interactions with women. I found it really useful in defining my reasons for speaking with and/or allowing a woman into my life.

I was pleasantly surprised by Chapter 11, which as well as having grooming and fashion advice, has an entire workout regimen for the guy who wants to get in shape. Chapter 12 has some great info on taking control of your mindset and building your ideal personality. The affirmation and self-hypnosis techniques are pretty spot-on.

“In life there are some things you cannot control, and other things you can.The key to happiness is to focus on the things you can control while not attaching too much importance to the things you can’t. So relax and enjoy yourself.” How to Become an Alpha Male, pp.86

Chapter 18 sets out the Alpha Male system for meeting and hooking up with women. This one chapter is actually better than a lot of other dating products in their entirety. From first meeting to final stages of seduction or getting into a relationship, it’s all here in this one clear and concise chapter.

The advice for how to handle phone calls is golden. No three day rule, no canned lines, just chat for a bit and do what you want. I love this inside out, no tactic approach to women.

I was a little bit disappointed by the following section from Ch. 20:

“As far as eye contact with men in your group (or men in general, by the way), my question is, who cares? It’s truly irrelevant what other guys think of you.” How to Become an Alpha Male, pp.159

I totally disagree. Nothing else in the entire course supports this statement. Being an Alpha Male means being dominant around women AND men. For more info on taking charge in social situations in all areas of life, and as a good companion product to this one, I recommend you check out Underground Hypnosis.

Throughout the Alpha Male course, Alexander frequently mentions that alpha males are usually relaxed, low-energy, and have slowed movements. While, I think alphas are cool and laid-back, I don’t completely agree that alphas are always relaxed and low-energy. It’s more important that they are comfortable being in charge of the interaction than always relaxed. Alphas can be high-energy, they just have to be comfortable in their leadership.

Although this book isn’t really about techniques, I’m a big fan of the “boyfriending technique” that was introduced. This is where you act like a girl’s boyfriend even when you haven’t known her very long. It’s particularly effective when used in terms of physical proximity, freedom with touching her, and having an all-around comfort and rapport with her. I do this type of thing in all my interactions, even with other men (more like a “friending technique”), and it always pays off nicely.

Overall, this is a very exciting product. I think the book delivers the marketing’s promises and lives up to the hype. Despite a few hiccups near the end, I am really impressed with this material and recommend it to anyone who might need help re framing their interactions. By far the best part: I felt like a rock-star after reading it!

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Personal ads are hundreds of years old.

There were already personal ads in newspapers at the beginning of 19th century.

Now, with the invention of Internet, you can place your personal ad in front of hundreds of thousands of available singles. In terms of reaching the widest audience for your personal ad, nothing can compare with online dating services.

Should you even bother with placing a personal ad in newspapers those days?

I have been placing personal ads in newspapers, and I have been placing personal ads online, and my experience is that online dating services beat traditional personals every time.

This is why:

1. You can reach many more people through your online ad.

I have said about it in the very beginning but this is worth repeating: newspaper ads can NEVER compare with the audience you can reach online. Virtually every one has connection to the Internet these days, and since you are reading it online, I am sure you would prefer someone computer literate as your mate.

2. You can put much more information in your online ad.

To include as much information in your newspaper ad as you can in your online ad would cost you a fortune – and most dating sites will allow you to place your ad for free. Your online ad is nicely structured and easy to read, so the amount of information does not seem overwhelming, as it would be if you tried to include the same amount of information in your newspaper ad.

3. You can put a picture with your online ad.

A picture is worth a thousand words. All online dating services will allow you to place a photo, so people answering your ad already know how you look like. All things being equal, who would you prefer to contact, a person who has a photo in their personal ad, or a person without one?

4. You can change your online ad as often as you want.

You cannot change a newspaper ad – once printed, it’s done. If you want to change something in your newspaper ad and see what works better, you have to place many ads – and you have to pay again every time. Online, you can change your ad as often as you please and check what works the best.

5. Your online ad has no expiry date.

How long do you keep newspapers on your desk? You are lucky if you keep receiving responses to your newspaper ad for two weeks. Your online ad can stay on the dating site forever, until you decide to remove it.

6. You can view ads of people that answer you online.

Offline, you have no information about people answering your ad – and it can be difficult to obtain answers to certain questions. Online, most of the basics are covered in the personal profile, and you can also view their photo, before answering them.

7. You can communicate anonymously online.

You can talk to people answering your online ads without giving away your personal contact details for as long as you want. Offline, you have to give away your contact information immediately. Online dating is safer.

8. Online dating is cheaper.

And the last but not the least, online personal ads will cost you less than traditional newspaper ads. Most dating sites will allow you to place a personal ad for free, and many will also allow you to receive responses from other members free. On most sites, you only pay when you want to answer ads of other members. If you decide to buy a subscription, the price is less than you would pay for a movie ticket and popcorn – and you can meet thousands and thousands of people.

As you can plainly see, online dating beats traditional personals every time.

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At one point in your life or another I’m sure you’ve heard
horror stories about the stress of planning a wedding and
perhaps even about the dreaded post honeymoon stage of
a relationship. Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to be true for you
if you make a conscious effort to remember that a
relationship is a place you go to give. So when you find
yourself preparing the “big day” leading to the moment you
say I do, remember to keep the wedding planning in
perspective. Don’t become overly consumed with how you
can make your wedding day “perfect”–remember to enjoy
the process. Think of ways you can give your partner more
attention, and eliminate as much stress as you can from the
equation. Isn’t it perfect enough that you’ve found each other
and agreed to spend the rest of your lives together?

The stress of the wedding can be like that rock in your shoe
while you’re strolling through the beautiful country,
demanding all your attention and time, and keeping the two
of you from enjoying each other and tending to your
relationship. Keep in mind to plan past the wedding, not
just up to the big day. There will certainly be more to your
life than having put this wedding together. Yes, the wedding
day is important, but more importantly, in the larger picture
of your life, the wedding is only the beginning of your life as
a married couple–it is not the main substance that creates
a long, healthy relationship. What creates a long, healthy
relationship is what you do after you say I do.

Like married couples everywhere, you may find yourself
pressured by the demands of daily life: work, children,
finances, household chores and commitments to extended
family. When the pressure is on, always remember what
brought the two of you together in the first place. This will
help you to not take each other for granted, which can often
happen after two people have been together for a long time.
This does not mean the love is fading, but it does mean that
there is lack of effort. People tend to get lazy after a while,
because they feel comfortable and safe. This problem can
be solved when both people are willing to make the time
and effort.

Nurturing your relationship, enhancing it, and keeping it
flourishing takes time, which is all too precious for many
couples. Just because something is not urgent doesn’t
mean it’s not important. So take the time to have a regular
daily chat, turn off the TV and the cell phone and sit together
for a short time, uninterrupted and face-to-face, every day to
share your thoughts and feelings. Tell each other the little
details as well as the big news. Focusing on each other for
as little as fifteen minutes a day can make a huge
difference. You will both feel appreciated and heard.

Meet at the park for a walk, treat each other to a movie, have
a bubble bath, have brunch at a cozy café, steal each other
from work and have a quiet lunch, rendezvous after work for
a drink and an appetizer before dinner, commute together if
at all possible, dance in your kitchen. Whether you’re dining
out or having a picnic dinner on the living room floor, make it
special. It doesn’t have to be expensive, just generous. The
anticipation of a planned evening or activity can be fun and
exciting, even if (especially if) you’ve been together for a long
time. By making a date, you’ll set aside the special time
your relationship deserves and consistently rediscover the
romance that started it all.

Everyone is independent in their own beliefs and ideas
about things, so don’t expect a person to always see things
your way. That’s why patience is golden to a healthy
relationship. There are times when your partner will not
respond in a way that is pleasing to you, but this does not
mean you have to take it personally. Always slow down,
take a deep breath and think of reasons why your partner
may be acting a certain way. Assuming and jumping to
conclusions is always an unhealthy step to take because it
shows your partner that they are not entitled to act freely. It
shows that you automatically assume the worst of them
and this can cause them to feel attacked. Give your partner
some time and let them know that you will be there for them
when they are ready to talk.

You are the result of the choices you’ve made so far. So
remember to appreciate each other for the fact that your past
thoughts, words and actions have led you both to one
another. You found each other to inspire one another to be
even finer and more joyful than you would have been alone.
So don’t wait till special occasions like birthdays or
Valentine’s day to get romantic–don’t stop the flowers,
surprise gifts, love notes, spontaneous adventures, hours of
talking and, you know, that other stuff. Use romance as a
way of making the “everyday” exciting. It doesn’t take a lot of
money or effort–just a willingness to commit to making your
relationship special by paying attention to it. Just because
you’re now married does not mean you have to stop dating
each other.

Penny Phang is one of Canada’s nominated Top 40
Under 40 business leaders, recognized for her
commitment to provide strategic business
communication and marketing services with inspiring
enthusiasm, creativity, and innovation. She is also well
known as the Producer for Playboy Special Editions for
Western Canada and Founder of Penny Best Jewelry.
In addition, she serves as one of the Board of Directors
for Global Reach Organization, and continues to write
for her monthly inspirational lifestyle column, Moments
of Inspiration with Penny on pennyphang.com pennyphang.com.

Copyright © 2005 Penny Phang Enterprises, Inc. All rights
reserved.

A lot of times a man does not want to approach a woman because he is scared he will freak her out or seem creepy.

Or even worse he does approach her but in a way that is so not himself he does the exact thing that he didn’t want to do, which is creep her out.

The truth of the mater is when you approach women only one of two things will happen:

She will be receptive to itShe will not be receptive to itHer receptiveness, a majority of the time, has more to do with her issues and whats going on in her world more than anything the man approaching her says and does.

Even though, the way you present and handle yourself when you do approach her determines if she might find you attractive or not.

When you are confident in who you are as a person and show a woman that, more times than not she will find you attractive even if for whatever reason you aren’t her type.

At the same time, a man who does a good job of putting on a show on what he thinks is a woman’s type can attract that same woman, even though it takes more work on your past to be someone that you are not.

In the end, any man who can show a woman a man who is confident in himself or who he thinks he should be can attract women.

Whether or not you choose to be that man or someone else is entirely up to you.

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