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If a Single Woman Doesn’t Show She Likes Me Right Away, She Really Doesn’t Like Me and Will Never Like Me

This is an unproductive belief that a woman, upon first meeting her, must show complete interest in you by verbal and non-verbal communication.

This is a perfect example of this misconception. You ask a single woman to dance and she readily accepts. After the dance is over she accepts another mans invitation to dance. You get all upset and you say to yourself, “If she was really interested in me, she would have found some excuse not to dance with that guy when he asked her.”

What this guy doesn’t know is that in the majority of cases like this, is that when interest is not immediately shown to the other, this doesn’t mean that the possibility of liking you may not be there.

So, don’t give up on a woman if she accepts another guys invitation to dance. Just keep on pursuing her.

In conclusion, a lot of times a woman will not show her interest in you following a brief initial meeting. Prolonged communication and conversation are necessary before she can feel comfortable in showing her interest in you.

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  • Numbers And A Successful Marriage

    For many centuries numbers have been associated with successful marriages. In China the number 8 is considered the most successful day to have a wedding. If the number is the eighth day of the eighth month in a year ending in eight, it is considered to be even better. This year the number is 7/7/07 for a successful marriage. In some societies if the wedding is conducted on the number 4, it is considered doomed to failure.

    In reality numbers can be associated with successful marriages. For example, one stands for unity in marriage. It represents the coming together of a man and woman in holy matrimony to begin a new family unit as one. In religions of society, the number one is associated with God who was the originator of Holy matrimony. A couple that starts their marriage based upon shared faith and beliefs is more likely to be successful.

    In marriage the number two represents the union of two people-a man and a woman. As two individuals, they take vows to live together permanently. In the ceremony they have at least two witnesses who can testify that they have promised to remain together until the death of one of them.

    Three represents the three-way tie of Christ, the bride and groom. A rope that is braided with three strands is considered the strongest. In a Christian marriage, success is more likely when it is centered on Christ.

    Four stands for the things in society that can rip the marriage into fourths. Excessive spending through credit card debts, careers, and health issues or family changes are causes for problems in marriages. Discuss expenditures and incomes. Plan a budget; pay for credit charges as soon as the bill comes, never charge more than you can pay. Avoid his and her bank accounts. Establish joint bank accounts; save for a “rainy day”. Talk about job opportunities and pray about the best situation for your family. When health becomes an issue seek professional counseling and guidance. Try to understand each other when the family size changes. Maybe the loss of family member is causing strain on the marriage. Speak about how you feel to each other and to God. Communication is the key to overcoming many of these issues. Avoid dividing your marriage into me, myself, I and them.

    Five represents the phases of marriage that can affect the success. There is the honeymoon period. This is the time of becoming intimate, the blending of your personalities, learning to share and living on love. The next phase is when the first child comes. This brings about a new relationship of sharing time and energy. The third phase is when the first child starts to school. This family change is sometimes difficult to accept, especially when the parents are closely knit to the child. Mother may not want to let the child go of her apron strings that may cause a problem with the father or vise versa. The empty nest syndrome is when the last child leaves home. This is a difficult time for husbands and wives who have not learned to live with each other. They may think it is easier to divorce than to start a new family lifestyle. The retirement phase or stage is often a harder adjustment. Fixed or reduces incomes, changes in routines, lack of hobbies or disagreement over free time, even choices of foods can affect the lifestyle. The unwillingness to adjust brings on choices to separate and try to start over in marriage. Yet the couple that recognizes the five phases of marriage and learns to adapt will find their way to a successful marriage.

    Six is associated with labor and hard work. A successful marriage takes a lot of hard work. It has been said marriages may be made in Heaven, but they must be worked out on Earth. Success requires recalling what brought you together in the beginning. It means you must keep the seed of love blooming by remembering your spouse on special occasions. Try placing a note in his briefcase that says: I love you. Send her a red rose for no reason. Pack a photo of yourself in the suitcase. Call and leave a message: I’m thinking of you right now. Say a special prayer for your spouse. Remember it takes a lifetime to make a marriage successful.

    Seven is considered a perfect marriage. That is why so many people wanted to be married on 7/7/07. However, marriage is not perfect because people are not perfect. Success means accepting the other’s faults, understanding why the person acts as he/she does, forgiving one another and allowing love to prevail over trials and tribulations. Marriage is like a rose garden. Success blooms with aromatic aroma but the thorns of problems can destroy the enjoyment. Learn ways to overcome or avoid the thorns that affect the success of your marriage. May the Creator of Marriage say at the end of time: Well done my good and faithful servants.

    Pat Strawbridge is a graduate of the University of Mississippi and the Mississippi University for Women and has done postgraduate work at University of Tennessee, Knoxville in Home Economics with emphasis in family relations. She and her husband, Drennon, live in Cleveland, TN near their son, Mike and his wife, Janice, and two grandsons Scott and Will. White Bible Ceremonies for Couples: Advice for Successful Marriage is available in manual form with instructions or CD with photos, instructions and suggestions whitebibleceremony.com/ whitebibleceremony.com/
    Patricia C. Strawbridge is a former home economics teacher. She also writes: Meal with a Message: mealswithamessage.com/ mealswithamessage.com/ She compiled and edited Callaway Cookin’: callawaycookbook.com callawaycookbook


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  • A great sex tip can provide you with exactly what you need in order for great sex to be achieved. Two key elements for great sex occur before actual sex, and during sex. They are the erotic elements of priming and auto pilot.

    Priming – Just like you would prime a motor before starting, you have to prime the situation in order for great sex to occur. Time and again the actions you do or don’t do beforehand will affect the actual main event. Thus it’s imperative to prime the situation, in order to have the most erotic and satisfying main event as possible. This great sex tip focuses on the practice of foreplay for priming. Engaging in foreplay primes the situation and is an absolute necessary element in order to set the stage for great sex to come.

    Auto Pilot – Here’s the big great sex tip that can make one night turn into a dozen more nights in the future. It has to do with knowing when to set things to auto pilot. That is, the point at which you determine that the female has found “her zone” during sexual intimacy. When the rhythm is working, and the positioning is in place, then simply act as if you are switching things to auto pilot. This does two things: It maintains and holds steady the “pleasure zone” which the female is in, and which will guarantee the arrival of orgasm. Also this great sex tip achieves a strong mental aspect for the male as well. Mentally switching to “auto pilot” will aid in the male being able to last longer, which of course is also key feature to achieving great sex.

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  • The second email that you send a woman is perhaps the most important one that you can send in order to meet her in reality.

    It is in this second email where you must tell her that you are taking the next step with or without her (not in those words however), that step being meeting in person.

    More than likely your first meeting will be something casual like coffee; however, to make sure the odds of meeting her stay in your favor you don’t want to directly invite her for coffee online.

    Primarily, because agreeing to meet for coffee means nothing without a time or date in addition coffee isn’t something that you have preplanned ahead of time by yourself.

    Instead what you want to do is invite her to something that you already have planned within the next couple of days and ask for her phone number.

    It should look something like this:

    I find it much easier to click with someone in person, with that in mind this Wednesday I will be at the Fair around 8, if you can let’s meet up then or you can give me your phone number so we can set something up later.

    What this does is give her options both of which are winning situations for you and it shows her that you have a life in the real world as well.

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