Have you ever feel that you don’t cherish something that you can get hold easily?

When you were a kid, did you really cherish the things that you could easily get from your daddy? Or would you cherish something that you had spent time to strive for?

One of the main reasons that women play hard to get with you is to want you to cherish them more.

Just imagine if every woman says ‘YES’ to you and one day, a special woman comes along and says ‘NO’ to reject you straight in your face. Do you feel that it’s a challenge and therefore raises your adrenalin of wanting this special lady 10 TIMES more badly than anyone else?

If she just sleeps with you after one night, and returns all your calls and voice mails every time, you will lose the appeal and interest in her as you know that the hunt is over.

Sometimes, a woman just wants to make you more aware of her emotional side. You have to ‘WORK’ more for her affections as it is human nature to value something that you have worked for than just something you can get off the shelf.

Remember! Women are considered the most emotional creatures in this world! So satisfy their craving for emotional security.

She might also not want to let you have the feeling of taking her for granted if she says yes to you too early in the courtship. Let me illustrate why this is so.
From a simple survey that I have conducted between 10 guys, 8 of them said that they will not cherish their girlfriends if they are too easy to get.

Now do you know why she feels insecure if she agrees to be your girlfriend too early in the courtship?

To be continued…

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Many Fall in love everyday and many relationship ends up everyday. Do you know what is the cause of break – up? It is because of lack of understanding, love, trust and dedication towards your partner.

Starting a relationship is not difficult, but to make it happy and long lasting is a big deal.
To have a successful relationship, one has to work. Most of you take a relationship for granted, once you reach a certain level of intimacy. You assume that you are regular partners. You forget to work on the rough edges and that dooms the relationship to your surprise.

Here are a few tips for a SUPERB relationship :

1. Perfection:

Do not expect perfection. Accept each flaws that come with each person because no one is perfect.

2. Give and Take:

A Relationship is not only about taking, it is about giving as well .

3. No silent treatment:

If there is a problem between the two of you, never use Silent Treatment and do not blame or humiliate each other. It will make things even worse.

4. Make time just for you:

Take your partner somewhere new. Whether you plan a trip to an exotic location or just a cabin on the lake. Rediscover each other all over.

5. Communication:

Communication is the most. Be open to each other and express your feelings.

6. Trust each other

Trust is a foundation of a relationship. Having constant doubts about your partner’s motives will actually be detrimental to the relationship.

7. Needed space:

Give your partner some free space. Do not stick and demand your partner to spend all of his/her free time with you.

8. Surprise your partner:

Give gifts or take out for dinner.

9. Support and encouragement :

There are lot of ups and downs in life and we want somebody to lean on. So, it is so nice to go home and know that there is someone ready to listen and to comfort you if needed.

10. Responsibilities:

Take responsibilities for your own action.

For a relationship that lasts, we have to take care of all the aspects of the relationship.

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As a committed Christian, it’s important to find a partner who shares your values and faith.

So, which of the many online sites should you choose – or should you use several to increase the chances of finding a date or partner ? Whilst there are many sites purporting to offer Christian dating, it may be worthwhile looking a little closer.

Many online dating services for Christians are part of much larger organisations which offer dating for a number of niche groups – Christians, Jewish, gay, over 40’s, etc. Whilst this may not concern you, remember that the people who run these sites do not necessarily have your best interests at heart – this is a business and they are in business to make money.

Whilst it is true of the sites which are based on Christian ethics that they are running a business, you’re more likely to find that their ethics pervade the whole site. Even to the extent of sites, such as Fusion101, which are offered free as a service.

Many of the faith-based sites also offer more space within your profile to explain what your faith means to you, which books or Bible verse have meant the most to you. This is a helpful opportunity to get a real feel for what someone is really about – what their heart and vision is – rather than whether they simply enjoy swimming and tennis (although those are important too!).

If you’re not sure whether a site is run by a Christian organisation, check their menu for an “About Me” or “Statement of Faith” page to find out more about them. Best of all, ask friends what dating sites they’d recommend – most people know of couples who’ve met via the Internet – so asking them is a good way to discover what sites might work for you.

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So many men are ‘acting’ like they’re men when they don’t have any other way to control their nervousness around women.

At least those men are doing something compared to other men.

But it usually just turns the women off because they can tell where he’s coming from. He is a man but something just isn’t congruent. Look..

Being conscious of your own body language and going through the movements of a natural is only acting. Up until now there just weren’t any other effective methods to physiological change.

If you look at nonverbal body language and the intuition of women, you should realize that you just can’t fake it.

Sure you could ‘act’ for a little while but eventually the camera’s going to be turned off and you won’t be in ‘character’ anymore.

You’re going to get caught or ’slip up’ around her.

Some men become pick-up artists or ’seducers’ who chase women even though they pretend not to be chasing them.

Since they are still afraid of women and taking the wrong relational dynamic for success they have to act.

They put on a front or ‘character’ of acting. Eventually they start to believe their own B.S. and become someone that they weren’t to begin with.

All of this is unnatural and takes a lot of time and effort to change their subconscious beliefs. So what happens is they become someone who is even more unnatural yet succeeds with women a little more often because he inadvertently had something going for him (sex) and gained
higher natural character anyways but he took the long route.

Few pick up artists achieve that congruency or level anyways.

You have to approach at least 1000 women by taking that entire relational dynamic.

During this whole time whether they admit it or not, they believe that women are above them and the ‘prize’ to catch.

Even the ones who say she isn’t prize and almost believe it logically, it doesn’t matter. Why?

Because their nonverbal body language and their entire approach to seduction is grounded in the fact that she is the prize nonverbally.

He could logically say to ‘approach’ women and I’m the catch but his body won’t believe it. He’s been conditioned too strong already to believe that she is really the prize.

Why? Well, should I start naming body parts? How about the scores of men she could theoretically sleep with? How about the emotional fantasies he’s had about women with her same
ass-ets and attributes?

His mind has so many neural connections in the reality that she is ‘above him’. that’s why men fail, they’re in the wrong relational dynamic.

They’re viewing women in the inner and social relational dynamic and that’s why they struggle. Women have the power there.

It’s not that they don’t have power naturally; they have a different kind of power naturally. They have the power to experience unheard of emotion, bliss and physiological response.

Millions of men aren’t aware of this true sexuality and thus they are thrown off by the behavior of women. They’re conditioned to the wrong stimulus of women.

They have alpha role models of inner and social behavior or ’sexuality’ but they’re not accurate. They’re great models of socio-cultural adaptation but they’re not a woman’s true sexuality.

At the root of why most pick-up artists fail consistently is that they’re in the wrong relational dynamic. They have a social alpha woman (a ’sexy’ blonde men’s magazine cover
girl and others like her) as their model of sexuality.

That is why they fail. They’ve been conditioned daily (and it still continues even more) to believe that a woman’s showcasing of her body is really her sexuality.

They believed the lie because it’s all they see in their reality. This sexploitation and the behavioral conditioning involved, influenced their behavior massively.

They can think it through logically but there is too much emotional attribution correlated with desiring her body (as a response to the stimulus). Anything he says or does coming from the subconscious belief and fact of this will still be obvious to the woman where he is coming from.

And if you’re the cover model social alpha woman and another ‘chode’ is ‘approaching’ you to ‘get some’ you’re going to be ready to turn him down because it’s obvious what he wants.

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You can try ‘body language’ techniques but the logic in them and ‘acting’ ilke you’re the man doesn’t work.

You have to have something that is REAL and put enough emotional attribution into it to change your nonverbal or subconscious behavior. Inner game is not enough.

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