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Seeking help from marriage counselors is a good step in improving your marriage. This shows your sincerity in keeping the relationship together and to make it stronger. But this also shows that your marriage is on the rocks. Why seek counseling if the marriage is doing great?

Maybe the vow that you made together with your husband or wife in front of the church altar is not enough to keep your marriage out of trouble. This could be due to some uncontrollable circumstances, failure to address this problem is the reason why many married couples are now resorting to counseling., and if it does not work, a divorce may be the last recourse.

Some people look down at the thought of seeking counseling. They feel that a third person could not fix what the two of them could not. But getting a fresh perspective from an experienced person may just be the answer.

The Right Time

It would be advisable to start your marriage counseling on an early basis—preferably before you get married or early in the marriage, especially if you sense that the two of you are having communication problems with each other.

Do not treat counseling like a “sealant in the leakage”. Some people have misconceptions that it should only be considered if the situation will lead to divorce. Instead of seeing it in that point of view, it will be better if you will take counseling to enlighten and help you and your husband or wife develop a clear and honest communication and proper handling of your problems once you and your partner get involved in a marriage.

Improve your marriage in its best condition. It will not be good if the two of you will just get a marriage counselor just because you are planning to separate from each other. Instead, let your marriage counselor be your guide in shaping your relationship in the best possible shape there is. Your counselor is not the best solution to your problem—it is both of you that can fix it. It is your commitment and your dedication to the marriage.

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  • Dating Strategies for All Singles

    As a relational coach I have had the privilege of interacting with unmarried people of all ages and backgrounds. I have provided a sympathetic ear, understanding heart, wise counsel, intuitive advice, and creative ideas to enhance dating lives and relationships.

    The majority of my life has been spent as a single adult. I have only been married six of my thirty-seven glorious years. Hence I understand that happiness is not found in who we date or marry, but rather who we are.

    America’s 86 million single adults come from many different relational backgrounds. Some have previously been married and divorced. Others have children. Some precious older singles are also widows and widowers.

    This being said the complexity and peculiarity of each group of singles requires compassionate and experiential understanding when relating to them within the context of relational coaching.

    I feel I have a unique level of understanding for singles. I have been dating for over 15 years. I know how and where to meet people. My world travels to over 50 countries have allowed me to date people from every religious and ethnic group.

    I have dated women older and significantly younger than I. I know how to tell if someone’s interested in me. I know how to ask someone out. I can adequately assess compatibility and know how to keep an ongoing relationship healthy.

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    Should the occasional dating disaster or breakup occur, I know how to re-establish a person in their identity and empower them to happily embrace dating again. When necessary, I can gently advise a person how to break up without being cruel and heartless.

    In regard to relational abuse, I know how to deal with cheaters and violent people. Saying goodbye is never easy, though sometimes it is vitally necessary. When one must move on, I can help them overcome their disappointment and happily embrace the future with newfound expectation.

    Non-traditional relationships are quickly becoming the norm throughout America, as we are a diverse people intermingled together. I have counseled people how to overcome and transcend these barriers. Bridges can be built and hearts won as we learn to love and accept one another unconditionally.

    As someone who has dated numerous women from other countries who I met online, I know how to successful manage a long distance relationship. Employment, military leave, and extenuating circumstances do not need to destroy a meaningful relationship.

    We are all social beings deeply yearning for meaningful relationship and intimate interaction. We need to be recognized and tenderly touched no matter are color, creed, age, or sexual preference.

    Therefore let us peaceably celebrate our humanity and embrace one another in the bond of heartfelt charity as we together seek love on our life journey. No matter your past or present, you can experience newness of life as you endeavor to date.

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  • Online dating can be a very efficient way of meeting new,
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