Life & Relationship Blog
6 Jun
Are you sick of meeting the same kinds of people in life? Try the online dating sites. Dating online is a way to meet a variety of different people who you might never meet in day to day life. With its ever increasing popularity, your chances of making your perfect match constantly grow better. With computer matching used at the online dating sites, you are able to find that very special someone just for you. You can find people that share your exact interests and hobbies who are looking for someone just like you before you ever even go on a date. Technology is truely great when it comes to LOVE.
If you are considering dating online, you must also consider the risk that is involved. Meeting someone in a chat room or through a dating site sounds simple, but you never can be sure how honest the other person may be. You should never give out personal information, such as your full name or address to strangers. If you choose to meet someone in person, it is best to go on a group date or meet somewhere public. There are bad people in this world we live in, so be cautious.
Some online dating sites are completely free. “Plenty of Fish” offers a simplified service to you, which includes searching by location or gender, and will never charge any fees. “Book of Matches” is another great site that makes the online dating experience free, fun, and easy. An equal variety of people are available on non-pay sites as with a site that can charge a fee just to post your profile. Only you can be the judge on which type of site to work with.
When you begin to pursue dating online, it is important that you follow some simple guidelines. Be positive and completely honest about yourself. If you expect someone to be honest with you, then the least you could do is represent yourself exactly as you are. Do not automatically assume that someone that shares your interests is the right person for you. Be clear about what you are looking for in a potential date and emphasize what you could provide to a relationship. This goes for both guys and gals. Honesty will always pay off in the end.
Keith Londrie II is a well known author. Please visit dating-information.info/ dating-information.info/ for more information on dating, online and offline.

6 Jun
If you’re asking yourself that question, then somewhere within you there must be a desire to forgive the infidelity of the other person. After all, if you knew 100% for sure without doubts that you definitely should NOT forgive, then you wouldn’t be entertaining the question, right?
You would have already said your goodbyes and would be moving on with your new life and licking your wounds. You may or may not have trust issues in your future relationships depending on how you processed the infidelity in your past. But what if you are struggling with the question? What then?
Well, EVERYONE has split personalities within them where separate intelligences are split off from the central stem of your Soul and use the Archetypes created and used by the Hurt Inner Children.
Hurt Inner Children, split personalities are split off from the Central Soul personality when the person gets traumatised usually more in childhood by the painful and corrupt actions in life.
These many Hurt Inner Children splits flow in and out of your consciousness and it is these split personalities which use the Strategies like the Violator, the Poor Me and the Selfish Competitive Star in order to get the attention and the Love of everyone around them.
These split personalities are normal and exist to different degrees in everyone. And this is how we change our minds.
As a different split comes in, another point of view takes charge.
Also these splits within yourself are like idiot children which have abilities above the normal like Dustin Hoffman in “The Rain Man” movie.
The special abilities I want to talk about this time are the split personality’s ability to be in control of your Love and Sex Life usually called “The Unconscious” because only they and “The Enlightened” have complete control over these so called, “Unconscious” parts of our psyche.
These splits can manage, stop or start the flow of sexual energies from your psychic sexual connections, between your lower chakras and the lower chakras of the person THEY Choose!!
These childish split personalities within you choose your husband, your wife and then they cut off the sex connection with your partner and transfer the connection to someone else, thus creating adultery, or the serial monogamy many people practise.
The split off parts of your personality are the cause!
Gurdjieff said that a normal person, split into many parts, “Cannot make a Promise”. As Gurdjieff said, “The person that says I will get up early in the morning is not the same personality who throws the alarm clock out of the window!!.”
And the split falls in love with a person for childish reasons, and the split again falls out of love for the same childish emotional reasons.
Because they control the Psychic Sex Connection, streams of energy between you and the other; between the sex organs, the penis and the ovaries and between the abdominal relationship chakras, all you notice is that the energy of sex is there in full one day, and the next it is gone!!
To my Energy Enhancement students, I often ask the Koan, “Who is in Charge?” And the answer in nearly all cases is that the split off parts of their personalities are in charge. As we remove the Soul Split Personalities. As we integrate them, through healing them back into the Central Soul Personality. Our central Soul personality becomes more in charge. We find more and more, We Can Make A Promise!
Sex becomes better, day by Day!! This is the real Sexual Tantra.
The problem is that these ego strategies always hurt the people around them because they change every day. One day in love and whispering sweet nothings, the next the violator personality to gain attention!!
Eventually the ego strategies they use to gain attention stop working and the people around them throw them out. With ego strategies, if you are rich everyone puts up with them, their job depends on it, but no-one likes them. If you get thrown out then you move on to another victim.
Without someone pointing out the discrepancies in your behaviour, you probably will not notice them.
The Denial and the justification of past mistakes come from the childish split off parts of yourself.
As the False Negative Emotions of Anger, Manicism, Seeking Sympathy and Attention, Depression and Fear are Eliminated, Emotional Integration with the Intelligence results in Willpower and the Power of Doing.
This higher functionality is the result of healing these Inner Children splits! Which use the Strategies are the Poor Me, The Violator, The Selfish Competitive Star, The Aloof, The Interrogator, The Don Juan or the Vamp, The Pleaser, Blamer, Critic, Tyrant and Last but not least, the Self Destructor!
The first thing is just to notice when you get mad or sad and how you use these strategies, and have used them since you were very young, to manipulate all around you into giving you attention and love.
When the traumatic nature of life, the Strategies become stronger and then your strategies will get stronger and more intense. People eventually get sick of this strategy manipulation for attention and so-called Love.
If it worked when I was a child, then surely it must work now? WRONG!!! Alcoholism and drug addiction to make people sorry for you. Wife beating to get their attention!!
This is not the true way to gain friends and influence people.
You need to actually see that it might be a good thing to STOP!!
Then you need to find out how.
Everyone will use all of these strategies at some time in their lives. Usually people cycle between them. As one fails they try another, stronger one. And then will be sorry and swear that they will never use them again.
It needs an Ancient Advanced Synthesis of Effective Techniques for Gaining More Energy – Meditation, Shaktipat, Energy Circulation, The Kundalini Kriyas, The Five Elemental Paths Of The Chi Of Chinese Alchemical Taoism, The Grounding Of Negative Energies, V.I.T.R.I.O.L, The Art Card Of The Thoth Tarot, Access To Kundalini Energy, Strong Psychic Protection, Learn The Merkaba, Pyramid Protection, Power Tower Protection, Create The Antahkarana, Soul Fusion, Monadic Infusion, Logos Infusion. The Painless Removal Of Stress, Trauma And Negative Emotion
However, to remove these sub-personalities completely, the more Advanced techniques of a Synthesis of Ancient Meditational Techniques are absolutely necessary:-
Leading onto the more advanced Techniques of The Karma Clearing Process.
Learning how to clean The Karma From Past Lives, Future Life, Future Lifetimes, Integrating Soul Fragmentation And Retrieval of Inner Children, Selfish Ego Sub Personalites, Life Destroying Strategies, The Aloof, The Interrogator, The Violator, The Selfish Competitive Star, The Vamp Or Don Juan, The Pleaser, The Blamer, The Critic, The King, The Self Destructor, All The Destructive Vows From This And Past Lifetimes,.
Which results in The Creation Of Self Love, Love And Service.
Ponder on this…
Satchidanand,
Director of Energy Enhancement, is one of the leading teachers of Meditation.!
He helps people worldwide reach further than they EVER thought possible,
FASTER!!!
energyenhancement.org/ energyenhancement.org

6 Jun
You know, I saw this happen recently…
I was at a bar with my friends when I noticed a guy who was chatting with an attractive woman. What was interesting about this guy was seemed confidant in his ability to “pick-up this chick”.
Unfortunately this wasn’t the case.
From the bored look in her eye, I could instantly tell she was looking for way to escape from this loser.
Now the problem wasn’t his looks or the way he dressed. Instead he was making a couple mistakes which were easily avoidable. If he knew about them, his chances of success with that woman would dramatically increase.
So next time you’re chatting with a woman, make sure you don’t any of the following mistakes:
Mistake #1- Not reading her body language
A woman is always telling us how she feels through her body language. Without saying a word, she’ll tell you when she’s attracted or when she’s repulsed. If you don’t read her body language, then you can’t pick up on subtle cues which can help improve your chances of success.
Mistake #2- Thinking being funny is the way to be attractive to a woman
Since many women state they’re attracted to guys “with a sense of humor”, it’s a common mistake to try to act like a clown when around them. While it’s important to make a woman laugh, it’s equally vital to avoid looking like a fool.
Being funny doesn’t do anything for building attraction.
Instead of trying to make her laugh, you should focus on a technique known as “cocky/funny”. To be cocky/funny, you focus on teasing a woman with a bit of mock arrogance.
Mistake #3- Trying to buy her affections with free drinks
Have you ever noticed those guys at a bar who constantly buy women drinks?
Well you’ve probably discovered these men are great at getting women drunk, but they’re doing nothing to help them get laid. By paying for a woman’s drink, they’re just making it easier for some other guy to pick her up.
By buying a woman ALL her drinks, you’re demonstrating to her that you must purchase the attention of a woman in order to get her to talk to you. While you can be polite and buy ONE drink, don’t act like a puppy dog and constantly work to please her.
Mistake #4- Acting TOO arrogant
Before I mentioned how you should act in a slightly arrogant manner around a woman. Now I wanted to mention there is an inherent danger in adapting this behavior.
While women love a guy with confidence, having too much of it can be a turn-off.
If you spend all your time bragging about your accomplishments, you’re demonstrating behavior with tends to annoy a woman.
All you have to do is display confidence through your actions and body language. If you come across as confidence, you don’t have to open your mouth to prove it.
Knowing how to attract women is a simple process.
If you can avoid the common mistakes which other guys make, you’ll increase your chances of grabbing a woman’s number and setting up a date. So learn these mistakes and take every step to make sure you’re not making them.
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6 Jun
Everybody who has decided to marry wants their day to be special and they want every aspect of their day to be just so. When it comes right down to it just how important are your wedding centerpiece ideas?
Think about this, how many times have you noticed a centerpiece? Has it been to say “what a fantastic display” or “how unusual” or has it been to comment on what a poor arrangement as you move it out of your way? Personally I have done all three but the last one happens the most. The point is you do notice them and surely everyone wants the comments to be good.
Wedding centerpiece ideas can be as unique and as individual as you are. They can be personal, sentimental, humourous, dramatic or whatever you want them to be. They can be a way of including your guests in your day by providing them with pen and paper to write good wishes or advice. They can even be a way of entertaining invited children (which will earn the undying gratitude of the parents involved)!
When deciding on colorscheme your centerpiece can be a way of bringing your main or accent color to each table. Your wedding centerpiece can be a main part of the decoration that you use for your reception and so I would say that your centerpiece is an important part of your day. Give it some thought, let your creativity shine through and make your wedding centerpiece one that makes everyone say ” wow!”.
Whether you choose candles or flowers, straw hats or wishing wells use your centerpiece to say something, make your idea as important as you want and enjoy your day!
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