It is no secret that planning a wedding can be lots of hard work.

Planning a wedding, whether it is your own or that of a family member or friend, can be fun and exciting, but there is certainly no shortage of little details that must be worked out in order for the wedding to be a successful one.

One of these important details is the choice of wedding favors. After spending endless hours choosing the perfect wedding dress, the best bridesmaid gowns, the perfect food, the perfect cake, the perfect church and the perfect reception hall, you may be all out of ideas for the perfect wedding favors.

== Finding Wedding Favor Ideas ==

If you find yourself running short of wedding favor ideas, be sure to ask around. Ask your friends at work, your family members, your colleagues and your future spouse’s relatives. It may be that one of these people has the perfect idea for wedding favors, one you would never have thought of.

== People Who Have Recently Attended A Wedding Ideas ==

People who have recently attended weddings, or better yet, recently thrown a wedding, can be particularly valuable sources of information on choosing the best wedding favor ideas.

After all, the information is fresh on their minds, and they may even be able to show you the wedding favors they received or gave. This can provide some great ideas for wedding favors of your own.

== Wedding Planning Guides, Bridal Magazines And The Internet Ideas ==

Wedding planning guides, bridal magazines, and the internet are three more sources of great ideas for the perfect wedding favors. If you are like most people planning a wedding, you probably have a pile of those wedding planning guides and bridal magazines lying on your coffee table, so why not pick them up and skim them for ideas?

And next time you are online confirming the reservation for the groom’s tux, or checking the availability of the reception hall, do a quick search for some great wedding favor ideas.

After you have gathered some great ideas, it is time to go shopping, and the internet can be a big help there as well. There are quite a number of internet retailers who specialized in wedding planning supplies, and many of them have a great assortment of wedding favors at some highly competitive prices.

== Allow Plenty Of Time For Delivery ==

No matter where you decide to get your wedding favor ideas, or buy your wedding favors, it is important to shop early and to allow plenty of time for them to be delivered and prepared for the big day.

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Learning how to read and understand body language can be quite beneficial for men wanting to have better success with women.

At the same time a man who has low self-esteem or a weak inner game is simply going to have a new set of skills that he doesn’t believe in.

For men with or developing a strong inner game here are just three of the benefits of learning about body language.

1.Tell When A Women is Attracted to You- At least ten percent of women are attracted to you right now as you are and many men don’t even know it. Knowing a woman is attracted to you 9 out of 10 times is going to change not only how you look at her but how you interact with her as well.

2.Create Sexual or Romantic Interest- The only way most men know how to create this type of interest is by telling her, buying her things, or pure luck. Once you know how to use your body language to generate this type of interest in women you will see your success rate soar.

3.Create a Sense of Trust- Many times a man doesn’t get the girl because he didn’t create a strong sense of trust in her. If a woman doesn’t trust you it will be hard to get anywhere with her. On the other hand once a woman does trust you, you can get her to do things she wouldn’t normally do if you want.

Surprisingly knowing all about body language if you change one or two things in your approach with women it can have a big affect on how easily she will trust you.

Learning body language can be a very powerful tool in a man’s mental tool box when it comes to being successful with women.

If he understands it is a tool and not a magic wand, it can help you get the girl but it can’t get you every girl.

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In this series on best sexual positions we have covered a multitude of situations and conditions for a greater understanding to sexual health.

Famous people, like everyday normal ones, are allowed to have a sex life, but sadly, theirs ends up in tabloids and cheap publicity outlets.

Such a situation happened to two of the greatest personalities of the 1950s and 60’s. This was a one-night stand between Elvis Presley and Marilyn Monroe.

Elvis.

Elvis, like most men in the 1950s were completely taken with Marilyn Monroe.

One day at a chance meeting he met her on a movie lot, and asked her out. She rejected his offer.

Elvis on the other hand, had a very active sexual life, and mostly ladies were arranged by one executive at the William Morris Agency who represented him.

Elvis apparently pressured this agent to arrange a meeting with Marilyn.

Marilyn

At the time of this “arrangement” Marilyn was still married to the famous playwright Arthur Miller, so the liaison had to be kept completely secret.

Marilyn was known to have herself been in some kind of 3-way relations with a pair of bisexual men (Charlie Chaplin’s son and another man) as well.

She was willing to meet Elvis, and did.

Their Most Likely Favorite Position

From information gathered in recent books about both of these Hollywood legends, there is one position that is likely to have been their favorite.

This would have been the doggy style in two variations.

On the bed and against a sofa back.

The correct version of the doggy style (most used in the sexually inhibited 1950s America) would have been for the woman to be on all fours on the bed, but her head close to, or touching the sheet.

Instead of her hands supporting her upper body, she would have rested on her forearms with hands flat.

This position elevates the woman’s buttocks for direct contact to the man, on his knees behind her. This also allows the man to fondle her breasts or even her genital area while he is thrusting.

The variation of this is where the man places the woman over the back side of the sofa, so her head in on the sofa back cushion, but her buttocks are firmly against the rear backside of the sofa, her feet on the ground.

The man enters from the rear, standing, and can thrust in a very vigorous manner. This is pure sex, and as the couple can’t really see each other, they are free to fantasize while the sexual act is in progress.

As we know from history, both of these unfortunate individuals were on drugs at the time, perhaps stimulants (amphetamines or cocaine), and the positions described would have been ideal for a couple so influenced.

As we also know from history, this was a one-off event, it seems both their sexual lives took on some negative elements.

Let us suppose that at the time, the positions mentioned (the agent was in the outer room while the two were together) were accurate.

They would have, most likely, suited the evening which was over not longer after it began.

Such doggy variations can bring great pleasure to those who employ it, and still are classified as pure sex positions (i.e. those without accompanying tenderness). And remain as popular today as they ever were.

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We are often asked for help in finding the g spot. To support you around this, we’ve created a simple, step-by-step exercise that takes about an hour and a half. Be sure to try it when you have space and time to do it fully.

You’ll notice that much of this exercise deals with the time and set up BEFORE you
actually try to find the g-spot. This is intentional. It is so important that a loving,
intimate space be created. It is only through this that your lover’s g spot will come
“out to play”. (if you’re old pro’s – we’re assuming you already have your own short-
hand around all this, so we’ve written this for beginners, though there are likely tips
here that you will also find useful)

Time Needed: Approximately 1-1.5 hours, preferably in the late evening, an hour or
two after dinner

Steps to Prepare:

1) try to sleep well the night before and eat well the day you plan to do the exercise.
being well rested and “clear” in your energy is helpful

2) plan to have a light healthy dinner, and don’t eat until you are full. We want you
both to have light, clear energy and eating a large complex dinner can work against
this

3) after dinner, set your partner up to enjoy a nice drink, good music, a book, etc.
for about an hour. If at all possible, I recommend running a bath for your partner,
so she can feel pampered, be opened up by the warmth, and feel clean and ready
for what’s in store.

4) during this time (while she’s in the bath, or quietly reading, etc.) excuse yourself
to do final preparation to your play space (you could have also done this earlier …
its just important, if possible, to set this up without her having seen it – so it feels
like you’ve created a special sacred place for her)

5) some helpful things for setting up a sacred space: candles, incense, special
sheets/pillows, sexy mood music, massage oil, lube, etc. Also, set up the area
where you’ll be working with your partner – it could be on your bed, on a massage
table, on cushions on the floor, etc.

6) change into loose, lightweight clothing (or even a bathrobe, sarong, or a towel) –
really anything that you will be comfortable moving around and doing massage in

7) if you can’t do all these steps – don’t worry! just breathe, smile, open your heart
and have fun.

Getting Started (5 – 7 minutes):

1) Invite your partner into your play space – and ask her to lie down in the space
you’ve set up for her. In attitude and tone – you want to show that you’ve gone out
of your way to set up safe, sacred space for her

2) In whatever way you feel its most appropriate, express your appreciation to your
partner – thank her for all she does for you, for her loving nature, and for her
willingness to share and explore her g-spot with you. It is a rare and intimate gift.

Massaging Your Partner (30 minutes):

1) Massage your partner, slowly and sensually for 10 – 15 minutes on each side. The
intention of this is to create intimacy and connection between you, and to further
relax your partner. It also helps her open into your touch and become more
receptive. Its very important during this massage that you not touch her clitoris or
vagina.

2) Long, sensual strokes that include her butt, and breasts are encouraged, as are:
kisses to the back of her neck, light sex talk in her ear, nipple biting/blowing, etc.

3) Remember – there is nowhere to go, nothing else to do – just ENJOY. Your partner
will enjoy you as you enjoy touching her.

Amping Up the Energy (5-10 minutes):

1) Now that your partner is feeling relaxed (and likely just a touch turned on!) you
can begin to entice her further. This could include: kissing, nipple sucking, yoni
massage, toe sucking, clitoral stimulation, etc. (I’m sure you get the idea : ) The
main thing is to keep taking it SLOW, and don’t go inside her yet. This will likely feel
very strange for you if you are used to just touching so you can have sex and
orgasm. In this exercise, you are not going to be having sex – and your touch and
play is so your woman gets super HOT and AROUSED. Again, do not go inside her
yet!

Finding The G-Spot (10 minutes)

1) At this point, we’ll assume your partner is aroused, and hot, and begging for you
to be insider her. If this is the case – WELL DONE! If not, continue your play using
the above steps until that’s the case

2) Get situated so that you are both comfortable. For this next part you will be
inserting your finger’s into her vagina, as well as touching her clitoris. Sometimes
you can do this sitting at her side, or you can also kneel between her knee’s.

3) Take time to get yourself comfortable. Talk to your partner, ask her and sort it
out. Don’t be shy – you will be in this next position for 20 minutes, and want it to be
comfortable – and a few extra minutes now are well worth it.

4) Slowly insert your finger’s into your woman’s vagina and massage her from the
inside. Play with her shallowly, deeply, at the back wall, in the front wall, etc. Take it
slow, use saliva or lube to keep everything wet (you can never have too much lube!),
and Enjoy.

5) WOMEN: It is important, during this part of the exercise, that you and your
partner be communicating about what you like, what you’d like harder / softer /
more of / less of / etc. This is an exercise to LEARN – and your partner needs your
feedback and advise to be given verbally and explicitly throughout. Trust us – its
worth practicing and pushing through any discomfort you might have.

Stimulating the G-Spot (15 – 20 minutes)

1) Now, its time to begin stimulating the g-spot. Insert a finger (or two), about 2
inches, and then slightly crook them. You want your finger’s facing forward, sorta
like you are making the motion of “come here” with your fingers. You’ll be touching
the front side of her vagina, with your finger’s wrapped around her pubic bone.

2) From this place, experiment with a variety of pressure – hard, soft, light, etc.
We’ve found its often best to start touching as if your finger’s are windshield
washers – with a constant pressure, sorta going back and forth.

3) [WOMEN: Give your partner feedback about what feel’s good, and what doesn’t –
help them learn how to drive you wild in bed... Its well worth it! You can also
experiment with clenching your PC muscle to see if this heightens your sensations]

4) You may feel a particular area which is more rough than other area’s, possibly
ribbed or bumpy. This is the g-spot. As you stimulate it, the gspot will often
become larger and more present as it get engorged. At this point, some women
prefer harder pressure, but most prefer softer pressure (so the opposite of the
clitoris).

5) Once you’ve found the gspot, and have a way of touching the area that your
partner is enjoying, add in some stimulation to her clitoris. You can also push down
with your hand on her pubic bone by placing your palm in the middle of her pubic
hair. This accentuates your pressure from inside.

6) A magic combination is to touch the gspot with your index and/or middle finger
while stimulating her clitoris with your thumb (good lube helps this greatly). Now,
while you are doing this, imagine an arc of electricity going between your fingertips
– connecting your thumb and your finger – and arcing through her clitoris and
gspot.

7) At some point in this women, you may find you feel like you have to pee. If this
happens, don’t worry. Nothing is wrong – just stay relaxed and go with it. (you may
be in for a fun surprise and an introduction to female ejaculation!)

If you don’t orgasm from this exercise, don’t worry! It’s main purpose was to help
you learn more about finding the gspot, how to best stimulate it, and to build
intimate connection and trust with your partner. It can often take several repeats of
this exercise to start feeling your gspot.

9) [VARIATIONS: try stimulating the gspot during and after orgasm, try different
pressure, strokes, angles, etc.. try it with one hand, two hands, you touching the
clitoris, while your partner focuses on your gspot, etc. try using a pilllow or two
under your butt to change your angle. Most of all – experiment, give feedback to
each other, and enjoy yourselves]

Wrapping Up (5 minutes)

1) At some point – either after orgasm, or otherwise – you’ll feel the energy shift
and it will be time to wrap the exercise up. At this point slowly and gently place one
hand cupped over your partner’s vagina, and one hand open on her heart. Look into
her eyes, and take a moment just to be present with each other.

2) Take a moment to breathe together, and enjoy what you’ve just experienced. Use
the next 5 minutes to share about your experiences – what you enjoyed, what you
most liked, what felt good, etc. Its always important to start with the positive. After
this, you can think about what you’ll do differently next time.

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