Technology has dictated the current pace and perspective of our lives with a dominant and unavoidable impact. When I look back to just 30 years ago to see the difference in lifestyle, knowledge and behaviour over those years, it is somewhat alarming to comprehend. When I had my son in 1971, the amenities seemed positively primitive compared to those of having a child now, which are much more inclusive too, being designed to involve the whole family with the birthing process, instead of just the mother. The changes in the home, particularly in furnishings and lifestyle, are just remarkable to an older person like me and would have been phenomenal to my grandmother who had so little – no fast foods, no television, no freezer, no washing machine, no dishwasher, no phone, no electric light or oven, no microwave – all items considered essential to maintain our current standard of living.

Back then, the only gay person I heard about, or came in contact with, was Quentin Crisp, through the TV drama of The Naked Civil Servant. Yes, gays were around, but they were regarded as oddities. Open prejudice against them meant only a few were brave enough to admit it. Worse still, far fewer people in Britain are religious now and so the only times they see a church are when they cannot avoid the necessary social rituals. Yet, we still pretend that Christians are in the majority in an increasingly diverse society and clothe social behaviour in singular Christian ethics.

Outmoded Behaviour

While all this change is going on, we are still demanding certain kinds of outmoded behaviour of people, paying homage to the nuclear family instead of acknowledging the relentless rise of single households; ignoring the fact that fewer and fewer people are getting married, while we try hard not to notice the increasing number of extramarital relations (and divorces) occurring by the minute. The latest survey reveals that at least 60 per cent of both men and women are being intimate with people other than their official partners. Yet we continue to treat such people as though they are in a minority, as though they are home-wreckers; pretending that only a few ‘misguided and selfish’ people would behave in such a manner, while still denying the increasing diversity of a developing society which is in anxious cultural transition. You only have to go on the Internet to see how many married people of both sexes are openly seeking new relationships with no intention of leaving their partners. Disguised as seeking ‘fun’ the eternal search goes on to find that elusive happiness. e viewed his present and future and the problems in his relationship.

Thanks to new technology, which has liberated people from their home location, there is now a self-righteous orgy of diminishing trust, betrayal and deceit in operation; one which is far removed from the much-vaunted Victorian values of family loyalty, commitment and selflessness. The mobile phone has become an indispensable item for illicit lovers, confirmed by a survey conducted for famous divorce lawyers, Mishcon de Reya. Thanks to the growth in the number of mobile phone and internet users, adultery is taking on new life in a dramatic way and conducting illicit affairs has never been easier.

The study found that almost half of those (46 per cent) questioned about their relationship habits claimed that the advent of emails, texting and internet chat rooms has led to a massive rise in the number of people being unfaithful to their partners. Nearly a third (29 per cent) admitted using emails, text messaging and internet chat rooms to flirt with potential partners or nurture an affair. Of those, almost a quarter (22 per cent) confessed to doing so every day while 62 per cent admitted to doing so once a week. The law firm says adultery has grown ‘alarmingly’ in recent years. Sandra Davis, partner and head of Mishcon de Reya’s Family Practice, says the surge in availability of instant telecommunication is reflected in an equally dramatic increase in numbers wanting a divorce on the grounds of adultery. “The number of hotmail addresses in the UK is rising and they too are being used as a conduit for affairs on the worldwide web and away from the prying eyes of partners.”

Rise in Infidelity

This development is almost predictable, really. Not tied to one place or phone anymore, and with greater freedom to live according to individual choice, it is open season on adult affairs. But are we perhaps expecting too much of enlightened 21st century folk when we expect total loyalty in long relationships? The point I am making is that we cannot have such dramatic change happening around us while we stand serene and unchanged in the middle of it, quivering like unconcerned ostriches while we cling to old customs. We are bound to be affected in some way by new inventions and new freedoms. While we might obstinately maintain an aloof detachment from it all, the biggest impact is being felt by our children, who not only set the pace for change in many respects, but also have to pick up the pieces from their parents’ broken relationships. Being directly in the firing line of any fallout, young children cannot pretend that all the changes around them are not happening, especially when they will be on the receiving end of any consequences and won’t necessarily understand or appreciate the reasons for them.

In fact, our children offer the most accurate reflection of where our society is heading. If we want to see a glimpse of our future, we only have to look at current youth behaviour and attitude. With the absence of universal codes of conduct and firmer boundaries such as those in the past, coupled with a more liberal form of child-rearing, youngsters tend to be more informed and confident in dealing with others, on one hand, but noticeably more emotionally detached and less loyal and caring in their approach, but even more fearful and insecure, on the other. Too much of adult life is exposed to them too early in their formative lives and, lacking the comprehension and maturity to deal with it, it increases their fears and anxieties even more. This partly accounts for the increase in age of the youngsters preferring to remain at home, 34 years old for men, compared to 24 years old a couple of decades ago. They want to hang on to that feeling of protection and enjoy financial security without too much responsibility, for as long as possible.

The world is a more exciting but transient place, one in cultural and social transition due to the revolution in technology. However, we are not moving as fast in adapting to those changes and are finding the speed at which our lives are being altered really quite bewildering and scary.

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For most men kissing is just something you do before sex. It is considered by many to be just a form of foreplay. Like warming up the engine on a cold day. Women view it a little differently. This is a chance to bond and connect on a emotional level. They also like it because it helps set the mood.

There are some things that you can do to make sure that your man loves kissing you and doesn’t view it as a speed bump.

1. Smell good. This sounds obvious, but it can be distracting if the woman does not smell good. At that point it is easier to just focus on the sex. A woman would have to smell seriously bad for a man to give that part up.

2. Surprise him by having his favorite flavor in your mouth. This works even better if it is alcoholic. Not only will he get drunk on your good looks, but he will also be drunk with the alcohol. It may also relax you.

3. Get into it. Too many women kissing is like something that is being done to them, not with them. Show how much you enjoy his kisses. Move your body. Get all into the kissing and he will get more into you.

4. Make some noise. Although men are primarily visual, we also want to know that what we are doing is working. One of the easiest ways to do this is when the woman makes sounds. To hear that she is really getting turned on makes the moment that much more enjoyable.

5. Speaking of listening. Make sure you whisper in his ear. Tell him how much you enjoy kissing him. Also tell him this is really turning you on. The more he hears, the more he will get into it.

A man can really like kissing. They may never love it as much as women, but they can enjoy it more. The most important thing about it for both is having the right mind set.

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You have chatted on IM, you’ve left emails for one another, you may have even left private posts on public forums. You’ve shared phone numbers and voicemail messages. You’ve learned about friends names and jobs and all those things that bother and delight your online crush.

Things are going really well – so far. You’ve even got a little pitter-patter in your stomach every time the phone rings or your email box is full. But is it time to go offline just yet?

The Risk

Moving your relationship from a cyber-based relationship to an offline relationship is a very risky move. On one hand, you’re taking a risk and an opportunity. The risk here is that you will be rejected by someone you have come to trust and appreciate. On the other hand, however, you may be taking a step into a physical relationship that can be long-term and rewarding.

Anyone who has dated online and turned that relationship into a physical one likely knows that the relationship is in potential jeopardy. Not only do the parameters and rules of the relationship change when you take it offline, but the rejection that could ensure following the offline meeting is potentially devastating. If things come crashing down, you may ask yourself, “If everything went so well online, is it just my appearance that he or she didn’t like?”

The Need

The fact of the matter is that online relationships are friendly relationships, based on mutual respect, intelligence, humor and cerebral things. However, to build a long-term, sustainable relationship, you need to add in another critical component – the physical aspect.

This physical aspect doesn’t necessarily mean sex, but it means being able to see and respond to the body language of your partner. It means knowing him or her so intimately that you can respond to the minute changes in their facial expressions.

Expectations

In order to facilitate a smooth offline meeting, if you are doing it for the first time, keep in mind that you need to be especially flexible. Do your best to avoid certain desires or expectations about your partner prior to the meeting. That way, if her hair is not the same color or if his muscles are not quite as large as you had imaged, you won’t be disappointed.

When you meet your online crush for the first time, it can feel almost surreal – as if you are meeting someone who only exists in your computer or in cyber space. Finally, you will be able to put a face with the name. You can hug, hold hands and actually memorize the movements of that person you’re so fond of.

Keep in mind that the first meeting, no matter how much you look forward to it, will be awkward for both parties. Therefore, make sure that you get up and moving for part of your date. The more you are able to interact, rather than stare across a table at each other, the better your true impression of the person will be.

If you realize that the person you are meeting offline really doesn’t meet the online needs that you have, don’t worry. These types of relationships are very different. Sometimes, the intellectual and emotional compatibility that you have online is just as important as a physical connection that you may not receive.

Therefore, follow your instincts. If you want to try again for a second date, go ahead. Otherwise, don’t stress out over the change. Having multiple satisfying and friendly relationships can be just as important as having that one love relationship.

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At school we had surfing for sport finally in my senior years. The school worked out when the surf was good that most surfers were dodging sport so they got a couple of teachers to supervise surfing, put us through a course and then introduced us to the beach. We all had a buddy system where half the surfers would stay on the beach and half would be surfing and the one on the beach would watch that the one in the water was always okay.

It was during a day like this that I was paddling out after a wave and a young 14 year old pretty girl came down a wave right at me. I tried to get out of the way and we ended up crashing. I came to the surface and she was screaming in pain. I picked her up on my board and paddled her into the beach where she was taken to hospital with a broken arm.

For a couple of months she continued to come to surfing for sport and we really hit it off. She became a buddy of two surfers each week and this made her more popular as more surfers could surf and some could surf twice.

This girl, surfed at a beach where I used to go by myself to surf each week. She had the most olive skin and such a great figure. She was one of the most prettiest girls I had ever seen and she was a pretty good surfer to!

I always wondered how I could get her to watch me surf with keen interest and one day I figured it out. I would borrow her surfboard. I asked her and she said yes on the condition I would fix any damage I might do and I readily agreed and paddled out. Every time I looked around to the beach her yes were keenly on me.

After about twenty minutes she swam out and held onto her board. She was almost black she was so brown and with a bright yellow bikini she was a sight to see as she hung on the end of her board as she chatted. I was smitten with this young girl. My first platonic relationship with a girl.

I asked her if she could duck dive her board and she said she couldn’t. She hadn’t been surfing for long but when you could make your board go under a wave like this in a duck dive as we called it , it made paddling out in a big sea a lot easier.

So on that day I put my arm around her and taught her how to duck dive her board. I am a guy that loves olive skin and I have to tell you that 24 years have passed since I did that and I can still see her with her butt in the air and those lovely tanned legs pushing down on the board.

With all this love, I forget her name. How bad of me.

I was pretty innocent back then. Perhaps we could have been boyfriend and girlfriend, She didn’t have a boyfriend. One thing I know, I never asked her to be my girlfriend, I was just happy she was my friend.

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You might ask yourself, I have heard this word boundary, but I do not know what it means. Boundaries are often mentioned in terms of relationships. Boundaries are a simple concept, but they can vary from person to person. Boundaries essentially keep the good stuff on the inside and the bad stuff on the outside. In the book Making Dating Work Boundaries in Dating, Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend discuss boundaries at length. It is a fabulous book to pick up if you are interested in how boundaries should apply in a relationship.

Now, I just mentioned that everyone has boundaries whether they realize them or not, and they are meant to keep the good stuff on the inside, and the bad stuff on the outside. Now boundaries can keep the good people close to you, and the people that will hurt you away. Think of boundaries as an invisible property line around yourself, and that those boundaries should keep the good things in, and protect you from things you do not want in.

Examples of violations of your person boundaries include: the loss of freedom of oneself, being with the wrong person, control issues, the inability to say no, doing too much within the relationship at the expense of yourself. Boundaries are your beliefs and ideals that make you especially unique. Infringing upon your boundaries only serves to make you an unhappy person.

How do you know what your personal boundaries are? You need to know yourself. Shakespeare said “To thine own self be true.” You do need to know what is important to you. What qualities do you like in yourself, and want from others. For example if you value honestly, being with someone that is not honest will not make you happy in the long term. You will need to be strong enough in your personal character to eliminate people who do not exhibit honestly in their words and in their actions.

Now looking at just you being honest with yourself requires some homework on your part to acknowledge what is important to you, for you to be willing to uphold your ideas, and then you must communicate your ideals to others. You need to communicate your expectations about a relationship clearly. When that other person may violate your expectations you need to be willing to discuss these ideas head on, and if need be you need to be willing to set that relationship free.

Boundaries are really meant to protect you. They are meant to keep you happy, and safe in relationships, whether these are friendships or relationships that may go further. You do have some ownership in knowing what things are important to you, they may be honestly, personal character, not using drugs and or alcohol. Once you know where your standards are you can communicate these to others and position yourself around people that will not violate your personal boundaries.

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The extravagance of weddings is a popular topic. We blame it on modern commercialism. But then, what excuse could President Ulysses S Grant have for the money he spent on his daughter’s wedding?

For the occasion the East Room which was chosen for the wedding ceremony, was resplendent and aromatic with flowers and greenery. From the ceiling, suspended on floral ropes, dominated a giant wedding bell composed completely of flowers. Never before, in the history of White House entertainment, were the decorations so lavish, and the atmosphere so laden with perfume.

200 guests sat in the State Dining Room at the White House, their hunger assuaged by a seven-course wedding breakfast. The savoury part of the fare included chicken, woodcock, snipe and crab. For the dessert there was the ever popular strawberry and cream and cake. Punch was laid on, of course, possibly based on Mrs Grant’s favourite recipe.

When food was eaten, wine was drunk, and good wishes were exhausted, Nellie and Algernon slipped into a Pullman carriage groaning under the decorative weight of flowers and flags.

Nellie, of course, stole the show. She was attended by eight bridesmaids dressed in white, four carrying pink bouquets, the other four blue. Algernon, showing himself a sensitive guy at a time when men were men and women had babies, chose also to carry a bouquet. His was pink and white.

The wedding dress chosen by Nellie was of white satin, fashionably bustled in the back, and trimmed with lace, orange blossoms and miniature oranges. Yes, I did say miniature oranges. What I’m not sure about is whether they came from grafted miniature orange trees, or bonsai trees.

Suffice it to say, that the dress alone cost $5,000. And that was in the year 1874. President Ulysses S Grant had decided, like so many other people, that spending money on a wedding was as a good an excuse as any. Especially if you have the money.

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Sometimes you have a great relationship and for some unknown reason you do something really stupid and the person ends up breaking up with you. You can’t help kicking yourself, and turning it over and over in your heard, “If only I had said this” or “If only I had done that instead” “Why did it have to happen?”

May be at the time you thought that he/she over reacted but after really thinking about it, you can see he/she had a point and must have felt really terrible. Besides you really miss him/her. How do you make those first steps to getting your ex back?

If you did something really criminal like cheated on them and or broke up the relationship to explore a relationship with a mutual friend, they may want nothing to do with you. But if what you did is forgivable, they might want to try to give it another shot – some relationships are just meant to be and you will not know if you do not try to find out. But before you go rushing to get your love back you need to do a few things:

1. Really analyze what went wrong. Just making amends by telling him/her you’re truly sorry isn’t going to do it. You must do whatever you need to do to make sure that you do not repeat your mistakes – and that they can be confident you’ve changed.

2. Be willing to do whatever it takes, this may include eating a really humble pie. It’s always easy to blame your “problems” on someone else. To believe that if he/she wasn’t acting in a certain way, your relationship would be great. Wrong. You attracted this person because the two of you are vibrating at the same frequency and in the same direction and your direction may be that of pain and self-destruction. Admit your issues, and like I said resolve them, otherwise you’ll get in the cycle of on-again and off-again madness.

3. Try to find out before hand how he/she feels. Observe his/her expressions and body language when around you. If you haven’t had a chance to meet since the break up and you have mutual friends or you are close to his/her family, ask them if he/she has confided in them whether he/she is open to getting back together. They may even have some ideas for you regarding how you can make the transition easier. However, this is a very risky move especially if the reason you broke up in the first place has to do with trust, or not being open enough. They may see it as you usual “sneaky” self.

Some people try to get back on phone, but a face-to-face meeting is the best approach. You will come across as more sincere if he/she can see your body language.

Do not try and make it look like you accidentally bumped into him/her and now want to discuss getting back together. He/she won’t take you seriously. Instead ask to see him/her and explain why. If he/she says “No-way” , at least you have a fair idea that he/she may still be angry at you. Don’t be discouraged though. He/she has the right to hurt. We all do.

Try contacting him/her again a few weeks after. If he/she still refuses to meet you, chances are they have moved on. Sorry. No need to make a pest of yourself or start acting like a stalker.

But if he/she agrees to meet you:

1. Apologize. Go all out to convey how truly sorry you are. Avoid going into a rant and rave about what he/she did to make you do what you did. It’s self defeating. Let him/her know how dreadful you feel about the whole issue.

2. Hear him/her out. Let him/her talk about the hurt, the anger, and all the emotions. Don’t’ try to belittle any of them. People have the right to their emotions even if you do not agree. After they’ve gotten it out they will most likely feel understood and will be willing later on to hear your side of the story.

3. Promise to start the relationship with a clean slate. Try and set out constructive ideas how you will avoid, at all costs, things ever reaching that state again. Resolve that it will never happen again and work towards it.

4. Woo him/her again. Let him/her know in subtle ways that you will never repeat the mistake. Make the relationship come alive by rekindling the fires. Make him/her feel special. Give him/her many reasons to be deliriously happy.

Not many people are that fortunate. Make it work!

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Communication is the key to any relationship. With bad communication, problems crop up at unexpected places. This is a classical case. I am feeling very hurt because of what you said. When did I say that? Two days back. But I never meant that. I don’t know what you meant, but it has been hurting me since then. Oh, I am sorry. I genuinely never meant that. Why did you not ask me then and there? I was very hurt to ask. Oh, I am very sorry.

What you say can make a big difference to your relationship. How will the listener know what you mean? The listener only picks up your words and makes interpretation. Choosing right words while communicating is important. If you know about your partner’s sensitivities about a subject, you have to be very careful while talking even in jest. Your tone has to be perfect and you have to be careful while speaking. You never know when you will hurt your partner’s feelings. This communication care is very important if the relationship is already going bad and you wish to save it.

Freedom in communication can be taken if you are sure that your partner understands you well and will not take any talk otherwise. In that case, you both behave like close friends, who speak their mind without bothering. If the relationship has not reached that level you have to be careful while talking. Loose talk can spoil a relationship.

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Your wedding is your own. And in today’s society, people have been constantly scouring every book for any way to make their wedding as personal and as unique as possible. One way to do this is to whip up your own wedding vows.

Traditionally, couples to be wed do not have much of a say in what goes into many of the words spoken during the wedding ceremony. Today, it is increasingly getting easier to personalize and influence what is said during the ceremony – within reasonable bounds,though.

If you desire to make your wedding vows unique and personal, you are not alone. Many other couples incorporate feelings, and intimate messages into their wedding vows. It has an added effect of making your wedding more touching, dramatic, and memorable.

Talk with the Officiant Ahead of Time
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If you would like to personalize your wedding vows, first notify your Officiant to find out the legalities, guidelines and rules in drafting your own wedding vows. He or she will typically give pointers and examples to help you draw up your own vows.

Furthermore, the Officiant will inform you of the parts of the vow that are expected to be said.

The Topic
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It may include promises, such as “I will swear upon my life to do …” or it may be heartfelt messages for each other, or even hopes for each other plans for the future and such. You may also opt to create a mixture of each to spice up your wedding vows.

Although norms vary from culture to culture, as a general rule, the wedding vow should not take too long to recite. Keep it concise yet meaningful.

Remember, you will have to recite this, and long recitations tend to make the memory suffer.

Make it Official
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After creating a draft of the vows you wish to exchange, it would do well to meet up with the Officiant again and show him a draft of your vows. Although in the end, it is ultimately your decision that is followed, do take heed of the Officiant’s advice, as it is usually sound and has been honed by experience.

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It is a good idea to practice your vows before the wedding. Although there is no rule against reading vows, a thoroughly practiced, heartfelt rendition of the vow will definitely make a lasting impact on your partner and the people witnessing the ceremony.

As mentioned earlier, avoid overly long vows as they tend to be less remembered and are harder to memorize, not to mention quite inconvenient to others. You may do so, however, if you feel the need is justified.

The Performance
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When reciting your vows during the wedding, always keep calm. People who are tense tend to speak to fast, and since the wedding vow is a very important part of the wedding, you will want to take your time in the spotlight.

Loosen up, so that in case you forget a line or two during the exchange of vows, you will at least be able to bounce back with something from your heart.

If you desire so, you may also keep a written version of you vows with you. You might want to read it surreptitiously though.

Good luck on your wedding, and may the sweet words you utter during the exchange of vows never lose their meaning for rest of your days!

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Marriage is a life long bond between two partners. It is a mutual relationship. There has to be total involvement of both the partners. It is coming together of two people to live a life together maintaining the initial love feelings that got you close together. Generally a marriage looses those feelings of love and sensuality with the passage of time. You no more feel that excitement about your married life.

To make your marriage sexy you should develop an art within you to keep things rocking. Here are certain tips you can follow to make your marriage for ever sexy.

Be physical out of bed
Touching each other is not only meant for the bed. You should always find out situations when you can touch your lover and feel the power of physical intimacy. Physically connecting in small ways throughout the day, make you warmed up for intense action later. Such acts get you connected close to each other and make it unavoidable for you to have sex even on stressed nights.

Be sexy and chat sexy
While communicating with other especially when you are in solitude with no one is around talk about sexy stuff. At night in bed have conversations with your partner about what you are learning about sexual excitement and what act of him or her gives you the most stimulation.

Create a romantic atmosphere
Decorate you house in such a manner that gives you a romantic feeling. Let there be flowers, aromas and scents, candles, running water and hot tubs, pictures, sunbathing, different types of music, even incense that give you a sensuous feeling. A romantic atmosphere plays a significant role in making your married life sexy. It is the atmosphere that changes the mind. A dull and boring surrounding and atmosphere will never evoke your sensuous feeling.

The effect of light

A soft light in you bedroom is what you require during lovemaking. Seeing each others bodies intertwined will create extra sensuality to you act. Take your time before rushing to the main event by admiring your partner’s body.

Make yourself look sexy
All the men want sexy wives. Dress up in outfits that make you look sexy. Whether you are at the party or at work in casual dress up make yourself look like a sexy lady. Observe how your mate reacts to the kind of outfit you wear. If you something attractive and sexy the definitely you will be appreciated. The husbands too should dress up like sexy men and do the same as you would want a sexy married life rather than a dull and boring one.

Get some change in life
To keep steamy romance from growing couples should get some change in life as routine makes you feel monotonous? When things are predictable to you the excitement gets diminished. You know that the same things going to take place and there is lack of interest and freshness in both the partner. Give yourself a change! Plan out for a holiday or a picnic in a place close to nature to enjoy life and the company of each other in a different surrounding. Such sexy surroundings act as stimuli to enhance your sensuous feelings.

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