Most people will just take what they see in front of them (and what they are programmed to see) at face value.

Most people are ignorant to the dynamics BEHIND reality because they’re habituated to being the conditioned response of the programming.

They have the ‘illusion’ of choice but the true type of relationship they have is one of conditional programming. The producer’s are the ones with the real power in that relationship.

You look at a production, commercial or ‘program’ and you see what you see. Few can actually (think independently and) differentiate the independent elements within, where they came from or most importantly the overall intent (and power) of the messenger.

You’re not aware of the type of true relationship you have with it nor are you aware of how much it is actually influencing you over the long term.

so when it comes dating and success with amazingly beautiful women, guys want the end result but they don’t understand the meaning and truth behind the behavior of these women in the first place.

They see these women acting aloof and out of this universe just like their t.v., magazine and film role models.

After a certain amount of time that consciousness starts to transfer over into the subconscious. You may not think that one ‘commercial’ has any impact on you but it does based on the type of true relationship you have with it.

You may think that looking at a gorgeous swimsuit model on the cover of a magazine doesn’t affect your success with women yet it’s the main reason (at the root) why you aren’t successful.

Now, add up over the years millions of men being watchers of television, cover girl enthuasiasts and unlimited commercial ‘programming’ recipients.

What eventually happens? All of this conscious thought becomes habituated PLUS they’re adding emotion to it.

The architect’s KNOW how to make it emotional to trap people even more. Why do you think sexploitation is so profitable? Why do you think t.v. execs create the most drama right before a ‘commercial’ break so that you just HAVE to keep watching.

They create a co-dependent relationship to their advantage. They’ve got you ‘hooked’. They’ve already influenced your behavior. ; If you were truly independent and powerful you wouldn’t even be WATCHING t.v. but rarely because you know of it’s behavioral influence.

If you want power and control back that you never thought you had, then examine things. ‘What type of relationship do you really have to all these sources of influence’?

So many millions of people are being influenced without their knowledge.

The type of relationship they have with the ‘architects’ moves into their nonverbal subconsciousness after years of ‘programming’.

They’re not aware of how or how much they’re being influenced nor how much they have already been influenced to this point. It affects their daily life, thoughts and behavior because the subconscious has taken over.

Being a byproduct of commercialism is nothing to be proud of. People of power are not co-dependent or in a conditional response relationship to this programming. They’re either the programmers themselves or they’re independent and free from it.

Yes you can use t.v. to your advantage but there is always a true type of relationship. I recommend you choose 3 programs TOPS that you would like to watch (there is no ‘need’ because need connotes dependency and powerlessness) and then use TiVo or completely skip the commercials or turn the volume down.

Then you’ll be more of the one who has true relational authority. Remember that powerful people only operate out of interdependencies or win/win ‘equal exchange’ of value or information.

If you’re being programmed to your previous ignorance, it’s time to take cognition and get into a powerful relationship so that you are the one in control instead of soaking other people’s power in like a sponge.

I encourage you to look ‘behind the scenes’ at the intent and motives behind what is really going on. This will be much easier from a viewpoint of being committed to only win/win relationships of value.

You’ll be able to cut a lot of crap out of your life once you see what has been really going on. If you’re really advanced you’ll be able to see how certain programming has influenced and affected your own behavior (such as putting sex on a pedestal or glorifying the social status of anyone you would ever meet who has been ‘on tv’).

See things for what they really are and you will have much more cognition and power.

Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and social dynamics.

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There are many reasons why people lose touch with each other and possibly even more reasons why they want to reconnect. You may have a long lost family member or friend, seek to find your adoptive parents or need to locate the beneficiary of a will. On the other hand, you may be looking for a former flame or a person who has done you wrong. So what are the right reasons for looking for a person?

Before deciding to search for someone, it is important to ask yourself two questions: Does this person want to be found?What are my motives?

Asking yourself if the person wants to be found certainly forces you to examine your motivations for attempting to find them. No matter what your intentions, if you feel the person does not want to be found, carefully consider their desires and reaction before initiating such a search. There are numerous positive personal reasons to look for people, such as:

Locate long-lost family members, such as parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins;Trace your decedents, explore your family history and even develop a family tree;Find old friends and former classmates, military colleagues or business associates;Search for natural parents or children, which can be a delicate matter despite good intentions;Legal and probate tracing for purposes such as finding beneficiaries of wills, pensions and policies.

Certain searches for people should not be initiated because of poor motives and the negative results that could occur. Such searches should not be conducted if you feel finding the person could cause them serious harm or distress. Reasons you should not seek someone out include: Retribution, such as a family feud where you seek to ‘make things right’ with another person;Revenge, when you look for someone to get back at them for some alleged wrongdoing or ‘make it right’;Obsession, where you feel a person has not given you the proper attention in response to your desires and you want to make them share your emotions;Neediness, when you are feeling lonely or unstable, life has let you down and you ‘need’ something or someone in your life.

A competent investigator and genealogist can help you decide whether your motivations for searching for someone are appropriate and how to go about finding them if they are. In cases where your motives are questionable, a qualified investigator will refuse to conduct your search. After all, those seeking retribution or revenge could get angry, confrontational and even commit criminal acts against the person they have located. Further, an obsessive person seeking out a former flame could be considered a stalker, which is another criminal act. Trying to find someone for the wrong reasons will most likely elicit a negative response from the person and could even get you into legal trouble.

Remember, there are certain situations that require legal intervention, including criminal acts or a missing family member. In these cases, the police should be contacted immediately.

The rewards of locating a person for the right reasons are countless. Genealogists and investigators revel in the joy of bringing together long lost family members and friends. Furthermore, a sensitive people searcher can smooth the way toward a peaceful, happy reunion by acting as an impartial liaison during the initial contact phase. In legal matters, investigators have the resources to locate the correct person and contact them discreetly about the issues at hand. If you are looking for someone for the right reasons, employing the assistance of a skilled investigator and genealogist will minimize your stress and help make your dream come true.

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What are feelings?
Why are feelings?
Which are feelings?
When are feelings?
Feelings, feelings and feelings

When these come to our heart?

Feeling is to feel. But to feel what, to feel for whom, and to feel why. But then also there are feelings.

To feel the sensation of love is known as feeling, or too feel hatred for some one is feeling. To feel good or to feel bad is what, whether it is our state of mind, or the state of our heart.

What lets us to feel all those feelings, whether our mind commands us to do so or our heart automatically feels.

Feeling of sound in silence is also feeling, feeling of happiness in sadness is also feeling. But it can be the other way also. Might be we may feel sadness when there is happiness all around, or we may listen to no sound when there is lots of sound nearby.

Feeling of beauty even when there is no beauty, feeling of being alone when everyone is around us.

Sometimes, we feel love for the person whom we have never met. But then also we have got those feelings for that person which we just cannot express. Because we ourselves don’t know why is this feeling within us. We keep on thinking for that person for days’ and nights and still we don’t have a single reason that why are we feeling all this. We use to feel his/her presence along with us every time. We use to talk even when we are alone, we use to laugh even when there is nothing to laugh and sometimes we even cry but why all these feelings are coming is just not known.

At times we feel melody in the blowing of air, in the flowing of water, in speak less night, in the singing of birds. We feel all this but still we don’t know why is this so, for whom we are feeling all this. Even we don’t know when we started feeling all this.

We are on and on to feel, but we don’t know the reason. We are feeling what, why, we don’t know.

We just feel each and every moment of these feelings.
Feelings enter our soul, our heart without letting us to know. But we just feel and feel.

we sit alone in the night watching the twinkling stars and we have a feeling that someone is holding us in his/her arms, we listens to someone’s voice, we feel a kind of strength in the blowing of air and lots more.

At times the feelings are for that person with whom we are in touch. We feel love for the people we meet; we feel hatred for the people we meet.
In any case whether we know that person or we don’t know person we have feelings but when these come within us, we just don’t know. We just feel and ask ourselves.

So, just feel, don’t rum behind that why they are there for whom they are there. Your own feelings will some day answer you about all this.
So feel the feelings, as one day these feelings will themselves let you know about their being in your life.

We’ve all heard the stories. The princess finds her prince and lives happily ever after. From childhood, girls are led to believe that you find your man and have your own happy ending. Our man will take care of us, adore us, treat us like the princesses that we are. It’s no wonder that our first relationship with the opposite sex seldom lives up to the dream. Here are some suggestions for smoothing the transition from childhood dreams to reality.

I can only imagine the confusion a man must feel when he asks a woman what’s wrong and between sniffles and tears, she mumbles, ‘nothing’. And women, we all know what we are thinking as we say it, ‘If he really loved me, he would know what is wrong.’ I am as guilty as anyone, but I’ve come to realize that loving someone doesn’t give them the power to read your mind. His simply asking you what is wrong is a sign that he cares. Ladies, if you are guilty of this one, it’s time to stop putting so much pressure on your man and simply tell him. If it’s something so silly, you are simply too embarrassed to tell him, (yes this happens), then say, ‘I’m just being silly’. Try it, you might be surprised how much men appreciate the honesty and not having to try to guess what’s wrong.

Another common problem is the old, ‘honey, what are you thinking about?’ He looks at you and says ‘nothing’. We ask ourselves, ‘Good grief, how can he be thinking of nothing? It must be something he doesn’t want to tell me.’ I’ve asked a lot of men about this one. Guess what ladies, men really can think of nothing. Don’t ask me how, my mind never stops for a minute, but apparently they can empty their head of all thoughts. In any event, getting upset because you think he is hiding something from you will accomplish nothing. Chances are, he really isn’t thinking about anything. Men don’t think like us so it isn’t the same as when we say nothing and it means something, for them, nothing is usually just that, nothing.

How often do we complain that our man isn’t romantic enough or he doesn’t treat you like he did when you first started dating? Those are the topics I will be discussing in Part 2 of Beyond the Happy Ending. Part 3 will cover jealousy issues. Until then, remember, ‘nothing’ is just a word, meaningless no matter whose mouth it comes out of.

Patricia Fason is a writer and poet. If you would like to see more of her work visit sitesoweb.com Sites O Web Romances You.