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If you have found someone you get on with via online dating, you then need to have an initial meeting and this article is all about making the first meeting a success.

First things first

First meetings can be stressful and chances are your date will be nervous to, so you need to think about a meeting that makes her feel relaxed and comfortable and also safe.

The Venue

The first thing is to decide the venue and the time of day you are meeting.

Unless you feel very comfortable with your date and they do with you, then keep the meeting brief and informal and in a comfortable place, where you have a degree of space. Hotel lounges are good, there is always plenty of space to have a private chat, yet you are still in a busy environment.

If you want to book dinner or lunch make sure you know the restaurant and it allows you to talk without being overheard.

Many people get very conscious when they are speaking to a stranger and can be overheard by others.

As a general rule, keep the meeting informal and not to long, an hour or so is long enough

You both have a chance then to go away and decide what you think of each other.

Your Appearance

Your partner will judge you on appearance when you first meet so you need to make a good first impression.

You can be casual or smart and you can even ask your date which environment or look they prefer – but if you are being casual be casual smart.

Keep in mind the vast majority of women love men in suits, so if you wear one it will go down well and give you an appearance of confidence and in control of the situation.

Conversation & Conduct

Some people find conversation easy and have no problem talking to people. Many don’t find it easy at aThe thought of making polite conversation brings many people out in a sweat.

If you are one these then get some topics to talk about in advance and some questions to ask.

Find out things your date is interested in, anything is fine, so long as they have an interest in it – it can be yoga or Paris Hilton, it doesn’t matter what, it just gives you something you can talk about.

You can also ask a lot of questions, asking people about their life and interests are subjects most people find easy to talk about, so show an interest in finding out more.

While you do not want to appear distant, you do not want to invade someone’s personal space – this means, no touching or being right in their face without invitation.

Make sure you have a welcoming body language:

Unfold your legs and arms, maintain eye contact when talking and make sure you’re not to serious – smile!

You should also show manners this is appreciated by all women. Make sure she can safely get to the date venue and that you sort out her journey home if required. Opening doors and generally being attentive is also appreciated.

Ending the Meeting

Do not press your date at the meeting with lots of questions about what she thinks of you! Simply, finish the date courteously.

Ask her to get in touch with you if she wants to – do not be pushy, it’s a huge turn off for women.

The fact you have asked her to get in touch, won’t stop you from texting her saying how much you enjoyed yourself. This then lets her know your standpoint and is not pushy and she can then phone you if she wishes.

While some women will let you know what they think of you straight away most wont, so give them time to decide.

The key the first date being a success is choosing the right venue, creating a relaxed environment, being well presented and courteous.

If you do the above you may well get the girl of your dreams.

Good luck!

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  • SPRING – The Season of Sex

    As the old rhyme goes:

    ‘Glory, glory, first of May,
    outdoor ****ing starts today…’

    The first few sunny days of the year get everyone’s sap rising, and most people find their thoughts getting a little frisky around May.
    It’s in the air – the birds are whistling at each other, the flowers are blossoming; the entire natural world is putting on the Ritz and looking for action!

    Traditionally, May Day was a fertility festival celebrating the rebirth of new life. Wild and raucous partying surrounded the rituals of the marriage of the May Queen and the Horned God, often ending in debauched sex. The maypole is actually a phallic symbol – after a day of dancing round it young girls were thought more likely to win a man and be more fertile. Pagan orgies may be less common these days, but spring is still a great time to get your groove on.

    So how do you get into the sexy spirit of spring? For a start, get outside. After months of hibernation, you need to get the blood flowing and feel the sunlight on your skin. Whether it’s getting out to the countryside for some hiking – and maybe a roll in the grass – or even just a walk in the park, get out there and breathe in the fresh air. Exercise, sunlight and fresh air all increase your endorphin levels (happy hormones), which are more likely to get you in the mood for sex.

    While you’re enjoying your expedition in the fresh air, you might feel like a little mischievous action in the outdoors. There’s something very thrilling about gettin’ jiggy in the grass – just check before you start there’s nothing sharp or sticky underneath you! Choose a bush or a hedge that gives you some shelter in case another party of hikers happens to come by, somewhere off the beaten track is best. Wear camouflage rather than attracting the attention of any passers-by! Leave your underwear at home for quick access, and make sure your camping kit includes a pack of condoms. On the subject of condoms, always take the used ones home – it’s unfair to spoil a beautiful passion spot with litter.

    If you want to join in some sexy pagan celebrations, Edinburgh in Scotland holds a spectacular Beltane Festival each year, with semi-naked performers, a procession and over 15,000 people attending. Celebrations continue through the night.

    But if you’d rather celebrate the spring with your own simple party, giving your lover a bright and beautiful bunch of flowers is a good start – then you might want to take them out dancing or plan a camping trip to get back to nature. If you’re after some outdoors action, a crotch less body suit could get you both in the mood, and then there’ll be nothing to stop you sharing a passionate clinch in the outdoors!

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    Shayla Moore is a writer for oasislingerie.com oasislingerie.com She has many intresting topics and ideas for all to read about. Check out more of her articles.


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  • Every bride-to-be will face many decisions while planning her wedding. Selecting bridal jewelry is among the many choices that she will make. While selecting bridal jewelry may appear to be a minor detail in most opinions, it can have a major impact on the outcome of a couple’s wedding album. Selecting the wrong jewelry for a wedding can cause distortions in the wedding photos or it can clash with the overall theme of the marriage ceremony. Most brides are unaware of the thought that is necessary in selecting appropriate bridal jewelry. Below are a few helpful tips for brides to follow when choosing bridal jewelry.

    • A bride should choose her jewelry based on the theme of the wedding. For example, if silver decorations are used as an accent throughout the wedding ceremony and reception, then it is more appropriate for the bride and bridesmaids to wear silver jewelry. There are many options to choose from in the bridal jewelry arena. Themes such as pearls, hearts, silver, and beach themes are a few, among many. If there is a common theme used throughout the wedding, then it should be carried out in the bridal jewelry, as well.

    • The bridesmaids jewelry should be a variation of the bride’s. According to proper wedding etiquette, it is inappropriate for bridesmaids or any other attendee to wear the same jewelry as the bride. However, selecting bridal jewelry that will complement the bride’s jewels is highly encouraged. For example, if the bride has selected a double-heart charm, then it would be most appropriate for the bridesmaids to wear a single-heart charm.

    • A bride’s necklace and earrings should complement her engagement ring and attire. If the bride’s engagement ring is made of white gold, then it is appropriate to select a silver necklace and earrings to match. The bridal jewelry set should complement the bride’s gown as well. If the bridal gown has tear drop lace appliqués, then a tear drop crystal pendant would be a suitable accent.

    • Choose photo-friendly jewelry. Some rhinestone jewelry does not appear well in photographs. Non-crystal rhinestones have been known to appear as black dots in photos. If you are looking for a sparkle affect without breaking your budget, Swarovski Crystal wedding jewelry is an elegant alternative.

    Traditionally, the mother of the bride will assist her daughter with getting dressed on her wedding day. Fastening the clasp on the brides necklace is always a momentous occasion between a mother and daughter. It is very important for a bride to select an appropriate bridal jewelry set for her wedding. Choosing unsuitable wedding jewelry can be detrimental to your wedding photos. After all, the wedding album is the key to an everlasting memory.

    Maria Romain is a writer for


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  • Isn’t it funny? People always want what they can’t have. The very notion of the unattainable, of not having something, instantly makes it alluring. If a person has brown eyes, they wish for blue, if they have curly hair, they wish for straight and, if they are short, they wish to be taller or vice-versa. Still whatever it is we want or can’t have, it seems, we go after. The same applies for attachments – the endless search for the soul mate, kindred spirit, the BFF – all of these deeper bonds lead to an intimacy we desire – that everlasting, unbreakable linkage of what is common, what is shared and what is invincible.

    The most common of all desires that I’ve heard time and again is to have a twin.

    Thanks to the wild popularity of fertility treatments that wish may not be far-reaching. These days, it’s not only possible to create a pregnancy and determine a preference for the sex of a child, but chances are the end result can be a multiple, fraternal birth, a non-identical birth – all in all, not a very spontaneous process. But take heed, there is still one element of surprise that remains: despite all the fancy-schmancy technology available today, there’s a 1 in 1000 chance one of these multiple births may produce Identical Twins.

    A twin is a twin, right? Wrong. There are fraternal twins and identical twins. Fraternal Twins are hereditary and come from the fertilization of two eggs, usually by two sperm. A pregnancy resulting in identical twins appears to be a random event, from the fertilization of one egg, by one sperm, which splits into two eggs resulting in two babies with the same DNA. Identical twins always have the same features since they have the same genetic makeup. Their hair, eye color, blood type, body scent and dental impressions will be exactly the same.

    It’s no wonder everyone is fascinated by Identical twins. Being a twin is like living life with a safety net. When all else fails, twins will always have one another. Also, never having to go through firsts alone, such as the first day of school, camp, or adjusting socially is a lot easier when you’ve got a pal. Sharing birthdays, clothes, a bedroom, being compared by how much you weigh or how smart or pretty you are is a minor drawback. (Though it is a bit of fun to pull pranks on dates, friends, parents and teachers).

    The thing most don’t realize is that something very important can get lost in all the hoopla. Looking out from the fish bowl of identical twin-hood it was somewhat of a treat for folks to try and determine which twin they were speaking to and it was amusing amidst the ooohs, the ahhhs, and questions about likeness, to share in the momentary thrill they’d get by guessing who’s who. But it’s important to be sensitve to the fact that no two people are exactly alike, even if they look the same. Despite the natural inclination to treat twins as if they are one, it’s important to remember that it is a big challenge for twins to be unique.

    Naturally, the notion of being Un-identical – a word I created, tugs at me now and again. I remember days that of not wanting to be attached to a likeness of me. I think about this and the image that comes to mind is a familiar one: the butterfly. You may wonder what a butterfly has to do with Identical twins but when you think about it, something other than the miraculous metamorphosis occurs for our wormlike friend. It is born twice: first as a mealy caterpillar, then again as a gorgeous butterfly. However, when it does emerge for the second time as a butterfly (and it likely won’t do this alone) despite its likeness to the others, and without any fuss, the butterfly lets go and finds its way in the world….and as that impression lingers, my thoughts find their way back to all that I have to be thankful for – my individuality and a best friend for life.

    Children’s Book Author, Nancy S. Mure is an Identical Twin and lives in Brooklyn, NY. Un-identical twins, is her latest release. She has written The Caterpillar that Wouldn’t Change, Papa in the Sky, Irregular Joe, Massimo’s Meatballs, and The Really Jealous Jimmy Crab.


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  • One of the most important wedding table ideas is the centrepiece.

    Believe it or not guests do not just come to look and admire the bride and groom. Although the couple are centre of attention guests also come to admire the wedding decoration, this is because they define the mood and atmosphere of the setting.

    There are many different types of centrepieces, this article will take a look into a select few of them as well as other wedding table ideas.

    Candles Candles can create a really romantic mood for a wedding, there are hundreds of quality and thoughtfully presented candle designs to help you create the perfect theme for your wedding reception.

    A display consisting of bowls of personalised floating candles make a very pretty presentation, and have the added benefit of being extremely easy to assemble.

    Adding coloured petals to the water would also add a soft finish and using the correct colours would tie in with your colour scheme.

    Sculpted or simple taper candles are also a wonderful addition to any wedding table. Taper candles can be accessorised if you wish to fit your theme and are drip free.

    They add sophistication and elegance; they really are one of the best wedding table ideas.

    Floral Centrepieces Flowers play a huge role when it comes to a wedding and what better way to dress up you wedding table with a beautiful floral centrepiece.

    Whether your wedding table is long, short, large or small flowers can be custom made to fit around your whole theme including the size of the tables they will be placed on.

    Floral wedding table ideas do not necessarily need to be made from fresh flowers, they can look just as effective when made by handmade paper or silk.

    Artificial designs can also be kept by the guests to remember the day.

    Flowers in vases are always a favourite, simple, and elegant. They play heavily into the mood of a ceremony so you need to think about the feeling you want to create for the whole day.

    Flowers are extremely traditional for weddings and really should be added to your wedding table ideas list.

    Chocolate Chocolate is one of the more fun wedding table ideas.

    Why not have a chocolate fountain or bowls of little heart shaped hearts?

    Did you know you can even have a moulded chocolate bride and groom centrepiece!

    With chocolate the different ideas are endless, you could have a tower piled high with little bags of chocolate favours for your guests to nibble on throughout the evening or to take away as a reminder.

    Other wedding table ideas There are many other wedding table ideas that you can use to decorate your wedding table, confetti being one of the most common

    Confetti can be personalised, made from various materials and comes I all shapes and sizes.

    Other ideas include

    · Personalised coasters that provide a tasteful way of catching the attention of your guests.

    · Place card holders to match the theme of your wedding

    · Wedding cameras, providing each table with a throw away camera to capture the day

    · Personalised rose petals sprinkled all around the tables

    The list just goes on, all you have to remember that the best wedding table ideas and centrepieces are the one that are personal to your wedding theme.

    Vicki Churchill is the owner of perfectweddingtableideas.com perfectweddingtableideas.com, a site that specializes in perfectweddingtableideas.com wedding table ideas and other special occasions


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  • Thousands of people have found love through matchmaking dating websites. In the past few years, these sites have made so much progress that has enhanced the compatibility capabilities. If you are considering matchmaking dating, for the best results you should use a well established website. Unfortunately, the most popular sites require a monthly fee. Most people have no difficulty finding great people within just one month of using the service so your investment is minimized. The art of matchmaking has come a long ways and will continue to get better as new advances in data processing come out.

    A standard procedure used by matchmaking sites is creating your personality profile for others to view. This is a necessity to making yourself available to potential dates. Your date needs some information from which to decide if there is a match. Being honest about yourself will get you the best outcome when searching for a serious relationship. Matchmaking dating is determined by your qualities and what you are looking for, compared to what other people are looking for and can offer to you. Matchmaking services should not be used for casual or “for fun” dating. They tend to be geared more towards people searching for that special someone or soul mate.

    “Perfect Match” is a well reviewed website. With two million subscribers, it features the highly acclaimed Duet Total Compatibility System. This system determines compatibility between two people using important factors such as lifestyle and values among other things. It has been proven successful in finding marriage partners and soul mates alike. Consider giving it a try. The “perfect” date is waiting for you.

    The “2OfaKind” matchmaking dating site has made over 10 million matches in 9 years. It also features real testimonials from people who found their soul mate through the website. You can also prioritize the features of your profile and interests to personally design your compatibility scoring system. You have the option of participating for free or you can order weekly matches for a low fee. Either way, you are sure to find “the person of your dreams”.

    Matchmaking dating is a great shortcut to your soul mate. It is not recommended if you are just looking to have fun. If you feel like you’ve been in the dating scene for entirely too long and are just stuck getting nowhere on your own, try using a matchmaker. You have nothing to loose and so much to gain.

    Keith Londrie II is a well known author. For more information on Dating, please visit


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  • Everyone who meets someone online is excited about getting to know them better. If there is a connection, you want to know right away. You should avoid asking a thousand questions however and stick to general topics at first. If you do start asking questions, even though you are not trying to, you might seem overbearing. You need to be patient and take things slowly. This will ensure that you create a natural environment in which you can evaluate if you have a connection or not.

    Personal Questions

    Stay away from asking personal questions. You can ask about your date’s family or friends, but don’t even think about asking about personal family issues or things like that. Anything personal your date wants to reveal is fine, but don’t try to pry. You should seem interested, but not crazy! So, be sure to keep the conversation on personal issues very general. Ask about their job, their favorite things, and what they love to do in their spare time. This will be a good place to start.

    Physical Questions

    If you have not met each other yet, you might want to be careful about how many physical questions you ask your online date. You may ask for a photo, but don’t try to ask them their weight or height. Anything you can’t determine in the photo, you will see for yourself when you meet. If you start asking really in depth physical questions, your date will only think you are shallow.

    Peter Portero also contributes dating research to a UCLA research study on online matrimonials site called shaadibliss.com Shaadi Bliss.


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  • When I was in high school, I was the guy who was glued to the wall at the school dances, wishing he could ask just ONE girl to dance. But every evening after the dance had ended, I was sure to go home alone.
    Not Any More! I’ve come a long way since then, have an incredible college social life – and more girls than I know what to do with! (You can read more about my long, successful, incredible transformation – on my blog at: bachelordatingguideexploit.blogspot.com )

    One of the “essentials” I had to learn, on my road from dating-dork to dating-Master, was WHERE to pickup girls. Not just places with women, but places PACKED with women, places that made it EASY to pickup women – and places with HOT women!

    So let’s get to it. Here are 7 of the best places to pickup girls. I’ve listed them starting with common places (lots of women), to uncommon (a bit harder to do the pickup, but higher quality women).

    #7: Bars & Nightclubs

    Ok, I had to start with the place every guy thinks of first. But bars are not the best places to pickup women. Not the best setup. Not the best women. And one of the toughest pickup “environments” around.
    However, bars are everywhere, nightclubs are fun, and they’re packed with girls on particular nights and during the “rush hours”. Plus, you can pickup more than one girl per evening out, IF you do it right. So how about a setup where the girl picks YOU up? How’d ya like that??

    The Key: Choose your spot.

    Checkout your intended target beforehand. Then go early the night you’re “operating”, and reserve yourself the busiest spot at the bar (that you’ve already picked out).

    All night, people will be cramming to get past you as they try to order their drinks in the chaos. And half of those people will be WOMEN!

    Women will be knocking into you, touching you, crushing you – all night. You’ll get a constant series of perfect moments, for opening conversations with the girls of your choice!

    #6: The Mega-Mall

    Every large city has a mega-mall (or several). But even if you live in a small town, that one place in town everyone goes to shop, will do just fine.

    Women love to shop. That’s a fact. So it just follows that anytime you go to the mall, there’s bound to be lots of women there.

    The Key: Choose your time.

    Do your research beforehand. Go to the Mall at different times of day, and different days. Walk around and see what kind of “pickings” are available. (Also, you’ll find the best spots where women tend to congregate.)

    One thing that amazed me was that the times with the MOST women, were not necessarily the times with the BEST looking women. So be sure to try the lunch-break, after work, and later in the evening. Then pick the time, frequented by the kind of women you would like to meet!

    And speaking of Malls…

    #5: Fragrance Stores

    If you don’t know what these are, take a sniff of the air – you’ll find them! These are the places that sell bath oils, shower gels, body lotions – all in cute little pre-packaged assortments, with a ton of different fragrances all with cute sounding names. Women can’t get enough of this stuff.

    #4: Franchise Coffee Shops

    Personally, I think it’s kinda dumb to frequent a shop that just sells coffee. Isn’t that what donut shops are for? But after a long, “tough” day of shopping, women love to drop all their bags and relax with a coffee/tea. They’re bored, they’re tired, and they’d just love some company. Try asking her if her shopping “war” was successful – then be prepared to spend the next hour reviewing her “captives”.

    #3: Franchise Bookstores

    Franchise Bookstores: Any bookstore works, but the big franchises attract women like a magnet (think Barnes & Noble). Especially on “dating nights” and weekends, when a women who doesn’t have a date that week, can easily occupy herself for an entire evening, book-browsing.

    The Key: Choose your books.

    Once again, do your research beforehand. In every section that women frequent, pick one book (preferably a new best-seller), and get familiar with it.

    Then, when you’re ready to cruise the bookstore aisles and you see a girl you’d like to know better – you’ve got something to talk about, that you know she’ll be interested in. In most cases, all you have to do is ask her if she’s read that particular book, and she’ll do all the talking! If she has, you just listen as she gives her opinion (women love doing that!); if she hasn’t, you can do your gentlemanly “duty” and fill her in about it.

    There are 5 great locations for you, for picking up women. But there are even better places for pickups – where the Hottest girls go!

    For the #2 and #1 pickup locations, continuing reading Part 2 on my blog: bachelordatingguideexploit.blogspot.com bachelordatingguideexploit.blogspot.com

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  • A lot of people will tell you that online dating isn’t the same as “real world” dating because you can’t flirt, but nothing could be further from the truth. Perhaps you can’t run your fingers down the back of someone’s hand, wink across a crowded room or use a suggestive tilt of the chin to convey your message on the Internet, but you can flirt in countless other ways. You just have to learn how to flirt properly on the Internet. If you handle things properly, you’ll come across as intriguing and mysterious, and get your online date’s heart thumping plenty!

    The first and most obvious step in flirting online is sending that first message. In fact, many online dating sites actually have an option called sending a “wink” or “flirting” which is simply sending a quick note letting the other person know you liked their profile and would like to get to know them better. It’s a safe way to break the ice, and is flattering. From there, however, it’s up to you to keep the flirtation going. Keep your next e-mails light-hearted and friendly. Showing that you’ve really read their profile is always helpful – compliment their taste in music or books, or ask a question about one of their more unusual interests. Everyone appreciates an interest in their own passions. As your correspondence progresses, toss in a comment that might sound suggestive of where things could head (but please don’t be vulgar!). In fact, a light touch is usually more effective than a heavy hand.

    End your e-mail with a question that requires a sentence or two to answer. For instance, how did they first become interested in kayaking, or when did they discover their talent in the theater? This gives them the chance to tell more about themselves, which is always flattering.

    Get Them Interested in You

    Toward the end of your e-mail, include just one brief paragraph about yourself (not too much, remember, it should mostly be about them). Keep it short and interesting, and leave them hanging…a sort of “to be continued” air to the story is a great way to get a response. If they’re hooked by your story, they’ll want to know more and they’ll respond and ask to hear more about you. It will be the beginning of what could be a wonderful online relationship.

    Timing is Everything

    Just like in the real world, a well-rounded person has a life outside of dating, so once you’ve written and received a response, resist the urge to send a dozen e-mails to your new online love interest. Nothing kills interest more than the appearance of desperation. Flirting is about expressing interest and than pulling back a bit – you’re interested, but you have a life outside of the cyber world, and you want the person to be know that and want to learn more about it. It’s a delicate dance, but if you handle it properly, you’ll soon be meeting in the real world.

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  • A good friend is one who gives a kind of happiness
    based on knowing interconnectedness; learning to
    be friends to ourselves and being one to others. .. Buddha


    People who can not be friends cannot make friends. ..Hazlitt 1827


    The things our friends do with us and for
    us form a portion of our lives, they strengthen
    our personality. Goethe

    Many people come and go in our lives. We call them friends.

    Friendships do end or fade away- end due to unresolved
    conflicts, changes in socio-economic state, or distance .
    Demands of a growing family, a new relationship or
    career can diminish the time spent on being with friends-
    until one day, the friendship fades away.

    It is also possible that friends do not “grow “in ways that
    we do, shared interests are no longer the same. Difference
    of opinion in religion and politics can be divisive.

    We look to friends for companionship, social interaction,
    someone to listen, provide support and comfort in times
    of need. A friend needs to be frank and honest when
    needed. A friend reaches out in troubled times, shares
    moments of joy, and moments of victory and success.

    True friends share secrets, it is a sacred trust. When this
    trust is betrayed, it hurts deeply leaving an irreparable
    damage to the relationship.

    We seek a friend’s point of view when major choices or
    decisions have to be made. A true friend understands
    that the ultimate action or decision is ours to make


    Sweetest things turn sour by their deeds and friendships
    that fester may grow into rank enmity. …. Ecclesiasticus


    Setting Boundaries

    Friends can be disappointing at times. There is a line that
    when this is crossed, it can mean the end of a friendship.
    And where do you draw this line?

    Think of boundaries- no matter how freely a friend can
    come in and out of our lives, our homes, and infringe on
    our time, boundaries are important. It is a matter of respecting
    your privacy. Learn to say NO when a friend start to crowd
    your space. We all need a breathing space from friends.
    There are important matters that require time and attention.

    Sometimes, too much familiarity diminishes the mutual
    respect a friendship deserves. This can create discord
    or deep-seated resentment. You be the judge.Take
    control, discuss this openly and frankly. This does
    not have to end a friendship.

    What secrets do want to share with a dearest friend? Think
    about this carefully. It’s not that you don’t trust a friend,
    but some secrets are better left in the deepest chamber of
    your heart. If you want to let it out, write it down, then burn
    the paper. But try to keep it to yourself

    Money issues can be devastating in any relationship- be
    it with family or friends. Misfortune can befall a friend.
    What are you willing to do for your friend? Money matters
    have ended friendships on a bitter note. This does not have
    to be- setting limits as to how far you are willing to help and
    be frank about it defines the friendship.

    A true friend will not turn his/her back on a friend who
    gets in the throes of financial disaster. You know your
    friend well enough to reach out in times of dire straits.
    How far you are willing to help is up to you.

    A true friend can be a real treasure in life.

    Bonnie Moss writes to inspire and to motivate
    her readers to explore the depths of their heart and
    soul and make a difference in this world. She draws
    from personal experience and her interest in the New Age
    Visit her website :
    goldencupcafe.tripod.com goldencupcafe.tripod.com


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