I’m going to share with you a secret that very few men know. That secret is honesty. Being honest with a woman creates trust and respect with a woman very fast. This will escalate your interactions with women faster then you ever thought possible.

In order to be honest you have to be upfront with why you want her in your life. This is how you never get rejected. Instead you are giving her a choice to be what you want her to be.

Let’s say you want to set up a friends with benefits type of a relationship with her. You do what most guys wont do. That happens to be tell her what you want from her.

“I just like having stress free fun with the women in my life.”

“Right now I just want to have fun. A relationship isn’t what I want.”

Women don’t normally like me very much. I don’t like having relationships with them.”

At first this might seem like you are rejecting yourself. What you are really doing is disqualifying yourself and showing her you don’t need her approval. This will often increase her attraction towards you.

But the real point of this is that you don’t have to rely on lying to a woman to get what you want from her. You won’t waste her time or yours. Things can then progress very quickly between you and her.

I have met many guys who have a tendency to lie to a woman about what she really is to him. I know one guy who has gotten really good at using women through lying.

She will sleep over at his house and do the deed. Over time she will want a relationship. He will tell her I don’t want to put a label on us. I like things the way they are. Almost every woman will agree with him. Deep down inside she feels cheated and hurt. On top of that he will be seeing other women and they don’t even know it.

All that might seem effective when you get what you are looking for. It ultimately is nothing more then allot of work and makes things very messy.

This can also work if you are already seeing someone casually. If things seem to be stalling out you can just lay things out on the table.

“Right now I don’t have the time for a relationship. We are either going to have a physical relationship or just be platonic friends. If you want to have some physical fun, then meet me at my place for dinner tomorrow night at seven.”

I think you will be pleased with how well this works.

Tyler Moss is what he calls a “charming man”. He teaches men how to meet, attract, and flirt with women. To learn how to attract women with your natural charm and without tricks. Signup for the free charming man newsletter at

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