There are far too many personal relationship gurus out there claiming that they know how you can change to best get along with your spouse or partner. Unfortunately, all these personal relationship have now invaded the Internet to supposedly help us with inter-personal relationships.

Now they wish us to come to their websites and buy self-help relationship books? The problem with this is that most psychologists who do family and marriage or relationship counseling are some of the most messed up people on the planet. Their kids are on drugs, on their third marriage and are emotionally unstable. Many suffer from manic depression and they still tell us how to run our lives and relationships?

Beware the personal relationship cooperation psychologist Gurus on the Internet, most are either fraudulent or socio-paths in my opinion and experience. Why would you take advice or buy a book on relationships from someone whose own house is not in order.

One of the biggest problematic tactics these personal relationship gurus use is to get you to believe that your relationships may not be as good as you think. Of course once you start thinking about this or buying into such a concept it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. Thus you now need the personal relationship guru faker, where before everything was perfectly fine.

How can a relationship guru who cannot solve their own problems help you with yours? The hypocrisy is a little unnerving and now they are writing articles on popular websites, telling everyone what is wrong with their relationships and how to make them better. Use common sense folks, do not give these self-proclaimed experts one red cent.

L. Winslow is an Economic Advisor to the Online Think Tank, a Futurist and retired entreprenuer worldthinktank.net worldthinktank.net . Currently he is planning a bicycle ride across the US to raise money for charity and is sponsored by Calling-Plans.com Calling-Plans.com and all the proceeds will go to various charities who sign up.