Life & Relationship Blog
13 Jun
Some people think the honeymoon can’t last
How many times do you hear people say “the honeymoon won’t last” or “that’s the honeymoon period, wait till they get back to reality”
I know the honeymoon can last forever. With cap in hand and book on the market, I aim to prove it by simply getting back to basics and using universal laws to prove it. So, If you are single you might ask “Is Christopher Walker right and if so, where did I go wrong in the last relationship?” and if you are in a burned out relationship filled with sporadic moments of interest, then you might ask “What is the difference between a sacred relationship and what I have, and what can I do to change things around” Here are a few hints from “Sacred Love, the honeymoon that lasts forever”
I believe “Global Harmony begins in the Bedroom” – That if we can’t find love and peace in our relationships, how do we expect to have it anywhere else in the world? In Canada I am known as the spiritual pit bull, and I’m on a real mission to teach people the secrets of love and inner peace in relationships. This, for me is the most obvious way to bring about global change. Start it at home.
Honeymoons are sacred. For some it’s the happiest time of their life. Nothing before and sadly few things after, compare to it. Honeymoons are sacred because we automatically act naturally. We discard all the behaviors that sabotage relationships, and behave as REAL people.
There are very few self help books taken or sold on honeymoon destinations. Why? Because we are not thinking about ourselves, or what we want to change. We’re on top of the world and the real question we need to ask, is how do we stay there.
Falling in love is quite easy, it’s as natural as, and as important as a daily bowel movement. But we know so little about falling in love, it’s usually an accident. And then keeping it, holding it, sustaining it we seem to know less and less about as we get busier and more confused with thousands of self proclaimed self help gurus. How do we keep that love sacred and make the honeymoon last forever? Well lets begin with some don’ts
Here’s some don’ts
Don’t get involved in self help seminars unless you are diagnosed with some serious illness. Most people are doing self help to fix what aint broke. If it aint broke, don’t fix it. Learn to appreciate what you’ve got.
Don’t help your partner to change. Always remember that what made you fall in love in the first place is who they are. Change it, and you are really saying, deep down, you aren’t good enough.
Don’t blame them. If shit happens, it’s 100% you. You cause it, you can fix it. But if you go around saying “he did this or she did that” you are really stuffed.
Don’t think that gifts, and sudden make up sex are going to cause your stupidity to be forgotten. You reveal yourself in your worst moments, not your best. On that honeymoon, you worked day an night to make them happy, in every way. Why do you think a marriage contract is going to change that?
Don’t carry baggage about your ex relationships, parents or boss into the relationship. Every issue that surfaces becomes a judgment and every judgment is a nail in the coffin of your relationship. Everyone is worthy of love, even that A hole who had an affair on you is just a mirror into your own soul. There’s a way of getting over this stuff that doesn’t take months or years. Just remember, don’t blame or play victim.
Don’t do something that you can’t sustain. Viagra makes a great party night but what then? Spending a fortune on a holiday and getting back to poverty, something’s a bit disconnected. Try balancing the short term and the long term.
Don’t think you know somebody just because you married them, had sex with them or ate a meal with their family. The truth is always revealed in time. There’s two sides to everyone and you’d better know that or your expectations are gong to kill the romance. Of course they are going to have some stuff you have to deal with. But, like the honeymoon, learn to know it, but focus on the good side. Simple self help isn’t it.
Don’t think someone is going to change your life. If you are a miserable grumpy, self righteous, self absorbed high maintenance individual before you get married, well that isn’t going to change in the long term unless you change what you focus on. Focus on someone else’s happiness might be a good start.
Now the dos
Ahh, but that’s another story. Sacred Love – The honeymoon that lasts forever/
chriswalker.com.au Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chris’s work and journeys to Nepal, visit chriswalker.com.au chriswalker.com.au

13 Jun
With your new positive outlook on dating, a rough idea of what you’d like in a partner, and confidence beaming all over your face, you’re ready to take matters into your own hands and venture out to find Mr. or Ms. Right.
1. Be proactive
Most people know exactly what they want out of their careers and have a clearly defined set of goals. But when it comes to finding a partner, it’s often left to chance. You’d never be that random with your job! If you really want to find that special someone, make dating as important as your career. The first step is to tell everyone you know that you’re available. Tell your friends, your co-workers, your hairdresser and the neighbors. Heck, tell the cable guy.
Get the word out. Don’t make a big deal of it, just casually let them know you’re on the lookout for eligible dates, so if they happen to know someone who you might hit it off with… you get the idea! If you keep it a secret, chances are you’ll be home alone most weekends, so don’t be shy, and drop the occasional hint. How else is the world supposed to know?
2. Be open
The best advice we can give you is to be open to meeting someone everywhere you go. There are lots of opportunities throughout your regular day to meet your future partner. You just need to have your radar turned on. Think about it. You could meet her over your morning latte; on the train heading to work; while standing in line for a chicken salad, cruising through the produce aisle, at the dry cleaners or the gym.
Interesting people are all around us, but we’re all so consumed with our busy lives that we rarely take the time to look up. So start today! Notice your surroundings and the people who cohabit them. Here’s what will make the biggest difference and allow serendipity to do its thing: being aware, keeping a friendly smile on your face and not being afraid to say hello once in a while.
3. Widen your scope
Don’t limit your options by thinking someone is not right for you, is beneath or above you, or isn’t your usual type. That high-powered corporate attorney who helped negotiate your company’s last acquisition might be longing to go out with someone who is creative and free spirited — you!
Don’t get turned off because of occupation, income, height, number of children, fitness level, hair color, hobbies, musical tastes, shyness, boldness or whatever. Right now you’re just looking for dates— and like job opportunities or taxis — when one appears, a whole slew of others seem to follow. Try not to focus on the ultimate goal, but think more about putting your dating skills into practice and having some fun.
4. Create a ripple effect
Do you know why it’s smart to talk to anyone, anywhere, even if that person doesn’t seem to be your type? Well, if you throw a pebble into the dating pool, it can have a significant ripple effect that is sure to benefit you.
A 30-year-old female friend of ours recently met a 60-year-old woman at an art exhibition. Even though the older woman was twice her age, the two found they had many things in common, especially their taste in art. The woman later introduced our
friend to her nephew and they’ve been out several times since.
Having a genuine interest in getting to know new people and keeping an open mind while you’re networking might end up being more valuable than you think. You just never know who that person might introduce you to in the future. Similarly, if
you meet someone you like, but you don’t feel a love connection, why not offer to set him or her up with a friend?
Never turn down a party invitation or an opportunity to expand your network of friends and potential dates. Seek like-minded people who can introduce you to colleagues of a similar quality. Expanding your network will ensure a life rich with opportunity and happy times.
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13 Jun
When two middle-aged men tied the knot on March 16, they became the first legally recognised gay couple in Mexico City, the capital of the world’s second largest Catholic country.
When Mexican gays unite
Journalist Antonio Medina, 38, and economist Jorge Cerpa, 31, registered for homosexual partnership soon after the city’s new law permitting gay civil unions took effect, according to the Associated Press.
The Mexicans were united in front of government buildings, kissing under a flag that read “Civil Union Law: Your right to choose” while a band played “Besame Mucho”.
“With this law, a history of exclusion comes to an end,” Medina told the AP. “Today, the love that before did not dare say its name has now entered the public spotlight.
Last November, Mexico City passed a bill to allow gays and lesbians to form a partnership protecting property, pension and inheritance rights. But it stops short of granting all the legal statues and rights of marriage.
Campaigners had promoted same-sex civil unions for 7 years before the municipal assembly recognized gay couples’ legal statues, the BBC reported.
“It is simply fantastic,” said Julio Roman, a gay rights campaigner in Mexico City. “It is more than symbolic. It is the result of years of fighting for our basic rights.”
Long road ahead
But not everyone is happy. Church officials and Christians reportedly took it to the streets to voice their objections.
“It is simply not the will of God to have acts of homosexuality,” Armando Martinez Gomez, president of the Association of Catholic Lawyers, told BBC News.
“We are not against gay people,” he noted. “But we believe in a union between a man and a woman for the creation of children.”
Church officials have also called the new policy “Hitleria” and the city’s politicians faithless, Reuters said.
Mexico City is not the first to take more liberal attitudes toward homosexuals in Latin America. Argentina’s capital Buenos Aires, Mexico’s northern state of Coahuila and Brazil’s southern state of Rio Grande do Sul all have legalised same-sex unions.
But the public still remains intolerant of gay couples agitating for legal rights in Mexico, where some 90 percent of its 107 million people are Catholics.
Only 28 per cent of adults support laws that would grant homosexual partners to legal statues and some benefits and rights, according to a poll by Parametría.
In 2005, every two days in Latin America a gay was killed because of his sexuality, reported the Belgium-based NGO International Lesbian and Gay Association.
Countries like Brazil and Mexico have the highest levels of hate crimes, because homosexual people become easy targets when coming out of the closet, said the Economist.
Ting-Yao Lin is from Inter-view Mag. interviewmag.co.uk interviewmag.co.uk, a web magazine that delivers news bites and international stories to readers across borders.
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13 Jun
Well, this is a very common question for guys who can not pick the women. They just keep thinking what is wrong about them.
Do girls get attracted to only bad boys? What is so special about these bad boys?
First of all, let me explain that this entire concept is not right.
No girl on this earth feels attracted to a guy who is called ‘bad’. We are talking about someone who abuses girls, comments on them or does something like that.
Stop thinking about it and start doing some real work on it, then only it can be clear to you.
Do some homework and next week you can see a huge difference.
Choose some 5 girls, talk to them and follow these rules.
Always smile, be cordial and show that you are caring.
Never say anything sarcastically.
Try to show that you are interested in her. Keep complimenting her and then notice how a girl responds to it.
She may think you are just another guy who likes her.
So that makes a difference. So now, I hope you have got an idea why girls have that attitude for these kind of guys.
The guys who just remain very informal with the girls, a bit sarcastic and show them ‘I don’t care’ attitude drive girls crazy.
Sometimes girls may even think How can they say this to them.
But believe me, girls feel very comfortable around these guys.
So there is no question about a girl feeling attracted to bad guys.
You need to become a bit more comfortable with girls, may be someone they feel comfortable with. I hope you have got the key.
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