Dating desi style is a phrase I have coined, referring to the dating ritual adopted by people of from the South Asian subcontinent like India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh. I believe the younger generation i.e. the fifteen to twenty year olds are more accepting of the concept of two people being allowed to decide for themselves who they want to spend time with and maybe even marry compared to their parents who still believe in the arranged marriage way of doing things. This trend has become evident to the matrimonial sites of today, and they have launched online dating sites as well to capitalize on this trend.

The origins of the matrimonial system goes back to the time when India was ruled by the moguls, and it is direct descendant of that culture that is still widely practiced today. However, with the coming of the Internet a lot has changed in the way two people are joined together in holly matrimony.

Couples are now allowed to decide for themselves, if they would like to spend the rest of their lives together, as opposed to being forced in to it by their parents. They are actually allowed to date, in the true sense of the word and make a decision based on being with different people instead of just one.

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This issue is bigger than you think, with thousands every year having to struggle through all of the emotional as well as the practical quagmire. And the unfortunate news is that this type of devastation is on the increase both in Europe and the United States.

Not only the weak and dependent suffer extreme heartache and anxiety when break-ups and separations occur. For some people it can almost feel like the end of the world, and it may seem that no one understands or is able to heal the pain.

Not surprisingly Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy are very helpful in these situations, because they quickly deal with the negative emotions that seem to dwell in us at such traumatic times, such as anger, disappointment, resentment, low self-confidence, self-blame and many more. It then helps us to prepare for a strong and happy future, so that eventually we can return to feeling the way that we want to feel and get back to having some comfort and even enjoyment back in our lives.

You may feel that this is too big to get over and that nothing will take your pain away, however this is because you have issues and other things to resolve. These issues tend to look bigger than they actually are, especially with all of the associated negative emotions that you will currently be experiencing. During session of Hypnotherapy, you will be helped to deal with the emotions and the stress that you are feeling.

This will help you to be able to look into the future with clarity and even find you security. When this happens you will then work on putting your life back together and increasing your motivation to work on goals that you wish to achieve in the future as to ensure that you get out of life exactly what you want!

Hypnotherapy deals with the part of your mind that decides whether you feel sad or happy, it also deals with the part of you mind that creates you perceptions about things. This is why you will be amazed just how quickly you will see the benefits!

One day I was driving down a highway close to my home in Oxfordshire, when another car over took and nearly pushed me off the road. Instantly I felt rage and negative emotions beginning to build – almost automatically, as though this was the normal thing to happen. This happened while I was on my way to the airport and if it were not for my friend who was with me, then I would have been in this rage until I rose off that tarmac at the Standstead Airport. My friend said something very wise to me that allowed me to instantly look at the scenario from a different perspective, which in turn allowed me to enjoy the rest of my journey. What she said was simple – “Maybe his wife has had an accident or his son or daughter is ill”. See what I mean? After looking at it in another way I felt completely different.

In therapy we call this ‘re-framing’ and even though it is a very small part of the process you can see just how effective it is.

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I recently heard a woman say that she would not date a short man. She doesn’t care about how nice he is, educated, godly or anything else – he’s short and that doesn’t work for her. “I’m a tall woman – I need a tall man.” Then I heard another woman say that she would not date a guy who is uneducated. “A guy is not perfect for me if he doesn’t have a college degree.” Then, I read an article by a brother asking, “What’s a brother to do?” He’s tired of showing up at a restaurant requesting a table for one. “My goal this year is to hear Towns, party of two.” According to Mr. Towns, he’s tall – 5’10”, dark – not like Wesley Snipes but close, he has big brown eyes – one on each side of his face – that’s important, he’s articulate, reasonably intelligent, in good health, practices good manners and doesn’t burp, scratch or grab himself in public. I’m not mad at that!

There’s more; he’s romantic, caring, soft-spoken, understanding, compassionate AND passionate, cuddly, sensitive, thoughtful and humble. He thinks that women should be treated with respect, held in high regard, adored, treated like fine crystal, and savored like vintage wine.

Unfortunately, woman #1 would pass him up because he’s short – her man needs to be at least 6 ft. If I were her, I would turn his table of one into a table for two to find out what’s up with him. Why is he single? Why can’t he find a partner? According to he and his friends, his main fault is that he’s a “MAN” – a good man. While women are out and about chasing the bad boy –the man with a little thug in him, men like Mr. Towns are often left by the wayside. “Women often tell me that there are no good men left. Wrong! We are everywhere.” Women like the two mentioned above have a set of rules and expectations for a mate that often have nothing to do with creating a lasting relationship. These same women complain often that all the good ones are gone. Below are a few pointers for women on how to meet available men like Mr. Towns:

Get the ball rolling
Initiate – stop waiting for men to approach you. Smile, wave, say hello – do something to let a man know that you are interested. If a guy took you out and you had a good time, call him to let him know instead of waiting for him to call you. If he has any common sense, he will know that this is an open door for him to ask you out again and not be rejected.

Cast a wider net
How about dating a guy that’s totally different that what you’re used too? Obviously what you’re used to is not working otherwise you wouldn’t be single and singing the blues. Try an older guy or a younger guy, maybe a lighter hue or a darker hue. Take off your artificial height and maybe that 5’10” brother might be all right. Forget about whether he has a degree or not and listen to what he has to say. Remember, if you keep doing the same thing in the same way expecting different results, you are crazy!

Examine & update your list
Ask yourself, “Why will I only date a man with a college degree?” Is that really important to me or is it more important to my family, friends and society? What is it about a shorter man that makes me look the other way? What is it about a blue-collar worker that just isn’t good enough for me? Go over your list with a fine toothcomb. If it’s giving you the results you desire – keep it if not, burn it and start over.

Stop judging a book by its cover
Get to know men before you write them off. Be interested in learning new things about each man you meet. Have conversations with men just because. Forget about romance or developing a relationship. Instead, focus on learning about him. Be interested in his life. Ask questions that will allow him to share his world with you. Give a compliment. Talk about current events. Relax and enjoy listening to what he has to say. Drop your guard. Be open – be available – be easy to talk to.

Ladies, I can’t tell you whom to date or whom not to date – we all have a right to be choosy however if your intention is to create a long-lasting committed relationship with an available man please make sure that your choices are in alignment with your intention otherwise stop complaining about your inability to meet a great man. Then and only then will Mr. Towns hear, “Your table for two is ready!”

Something to think about…

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